i had this stupid fight with me mom and we haven't spoken for 2 days. its never been like this. im really scared. i tried toking 2 her but shes really angry. what should i do ? :(
2006-06-16 22:38:07 · 23 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it was stupid. i asked her a question and she got angry for some funny reason and both of us have really bad tempers..so yeh..
2006-06-16 22:42:37 · update #1
just calm down and think why she got so angry with u , what u did?, so try not to do it again, be good, no matter how bad we think they are sometimes, our mothers always deserve to be loved and respected, she brought u to life risking her own life and care for u spending sleepless nights till exahusted.
First, right a nice letter telling how much sorry u are and that you love her very very much, bring her a flower or any nice thing that u know she likes, clean the house, make ur room and things neat, wash , do things,,study, help in anyway, show her that u really love her and care for her.Think that someday she will be gone forever, time for showing love and care is now that u both alive.
2006-06-16 22:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Me and my mum fight a lot. I'm 22 now. We usually get along and I love her so much, she's great, but I often do things she doesn't approve of, or when I go out - even though I'm 22 - she thinks I'm doing drugs or sleeping around when I'm not. She gets so angry and wont talk to me. When that happens I feel so bad, I cant stop thinking about it and want to make up with her. But I just have to give her time to cool off, and then I might buy her a nice card, or write a little note telling her I love her. She usually comes around. She's your mum and she loves you, so just a little gesture to show her you are ready to get along with her and move on from the argument - she will hopefully realise you are being mature and get over it too. Until the next fight. But that's what mums are for!!!! The good thing is, no matter how mad they might get, they still love us. Hang in there.
2006-06-17 05:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by miss_behavin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you asked the question and what the question was. Where you in the heat of an argument? I think 2 days is sufficient time to cool off; why don't you call her or write a letter, and ask what she really thought about the question? Or just simply ask, "Are you mad at me?" Talking this out is the only way you can find out.
2006-06-17 06:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by woptie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying and explaning your point of view that you never ment to get her mad, but sometimes you have a different point of view , which may be right or wrong.
Few days and she will get beack on the track.
I should say that I appreciate your concern and willing to keep good communications with mom.
2006-06-17 06:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by egymah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you will control that temper of yours (It's not very lady like).
Then go to your mother and ask her to forgive you for the disagreement,
While you are there - suggest that you both sit down and have A Cuppa.
May god Bless you both...
2006-06-17 06:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few more days and try to talk to her again. Sometimes we all just need a little space to clear our heads and organize our thoughts. Keep an open mind and open heart.
2006-06-17 05:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look contact me and Ill tell you . The main thing is that your feeling something your feeling sorry and that's good so go in there and let your mom know right now don't hesitate ! You only have one mom and it will haunt you if you don't!!!
2006-06-17 05:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your mom, soon she'll remember when she held you as a little baby and all will be forgiven, We hope. Unless the fight was about drugs or sex, your in the clear.
2006-06-17 05:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the end when it all comes down...whos right and wrong dont really matter but what matters is the peace you have with your mother...she'll come around thats for sure but even though i doubt that you want to go through this again so next time just keep this in mind.
2006-06-17 05:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit your mom down, and tell her that her feelings are important to you, and you are sorry if you hurt her in any way. And then ask her to please explain to you what upset her. AND don't get upset, just listen for a change. allow her to be right every once in a while, and let her know that you will always need her, her advice and her love.
it just does something to a mom to know that they are still needed and always loved!
Good luck.
2006-06-17 06:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by tam2u2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋