i had sex with my x! now i feel, it was a sin!?

Question

i feel bad about my relationship now! he cheated me. & i feel i so afraid to even think of moving ahead with a new relation!

should i tell my fiance about my x? my sex life?

Answer 1

Yikes. Do you plan on ever cheating on him again? You gotta have Iron will from now on if you dont want to. I say keep it secret, bury it and never look for your x, the problem is, now your x is thinking, 'I can have her anytime I want, she cheated on her fiance, I am such a man.' you just made him superman. If you plan on cheating on your fiance, I think you should bring up mistakes and open mindedness and see what he thinks, he might like to watch.

Answer 2

Being open and honest up front is the only way to ensure a successful relationship. If you can't say what is on your mind, even if you made a mistake then the relationship is doomed already. If you are afraid he won't listen, then my suggestion is to back up far enough to take a look at the bigger picture. Trust that the choice you made to marry this one was the right one and give him a chance to understand...otherwise you really will look "guilty" and cause unnecessary problems in the near future. Best wishes to you and good luck.

Answer 3

what i realy think , you should tell him . think like this way ..if the same had happned to him and he tells you the stuff he did in past , how would it sound like, seems to me he is being fair to you cause he loves you thats why he is excepting his mistakes cause he wants to give you the best of his side.
So go on and tell him, and end of the day we are responcibles for our acts and sins as we have got a mind n heart tho we get carried away so thats y there is word forgiveness and i believe he has gota right to knw but at the same time you can neva judge a person from his / her past so dnt worry :) and i wish both of you a happy life,,,

Answer 4

hmmm quiet difficult problem u have well in my views u should tell ur fiance u shouldnt keep hin in the dark as far asw wht u have done wasnt rite u feel true its a sin if ur fiance loves u and cares about u i think he forgive u unless if he is a kind hearted person

Answer 5

Dam, that's gotta suck, For Him. Your pretty much screwed, your fiance will probably find out sooner or later. At least your not married, do him a favor and DON'T wait to tell him after you get hitched.

Answer 6

In the eyes of God, it is a sin to have sexual realtions outside of marriage

Answer 7

if u dont love him, tell him, if he luvs u he wont leave u,
bu if u luv ur fiance, dont eva tell him, as u cant afford to lose him,
if u chose to tell him, start with an apology

Answer 8

you totally f#$cked up... I think if you told your fiance it would be over... I would dump your @ss anyway... take it to your grave.

Answer 9

no ......some time in our life we did mistakes without the exposures.....hence it can be forgotten and you should not tell this to your new fiance.........

Answer 10

i did the same thing as you but never told