Need some advise from women?

Question

I really want some oppinions on women and relationships.

Ok I'll admitt i haevnt had all that many of them. Shyness was part of it. But there are somethings about me that i am scared no one will like.
1. I'm very over weight.
2. because of the weight i feel ugly.
People tell me i'm not ugly but i guess it just doenst help my shyness.
3. I am not someone that can easily just walk up to a woman and just start talkign to them out of the blue. I fear they will laugh me away. I tried once in a bar in Las Vegas while i was living there and acutally i did it as part of joining a conversation i heard from a distance. Was going to make a comment. She ended up buying me a drink after i walked away in shame.

My question is this.
What do women want most in a man?
I hate to think its all about the penis. I know a woman wants money and security. I have tried dating three very nice women but it turned out all they wanted from me was money.
All i want is a good relationship.

Answer 1

Hi, i hope you are having a better day today! Not all women look for money or looks. Most are looking for true love and concern, they want someone who will love, respect and treat them tenderly them for who they are. What touches us most isnt sex, it is true emotions and feelings.

But i understand how you feel when you get disappointed in love. I spent the last 5+ years loving someone wholeheartedly and now he says he's lost the feelings for me. But i still believe in love and finding it. I am overweight too but i try to keep myself happy and positive and going out to do what i want, so i am in control of my life. Love yourself first... you've probably heard that one before... but there is some truth in it. Take heart! Don't give up! :)

Answer 2

Try joining a Weight Watchers or TOPS group. Everyone there will be on the plump side, you won't feel self conscious about that. And the men will outnumber the women 10 to 1. You might even be the ONLY guy!

Probably most of the women involved will be married or too old for you, but the purpose of joining is to learn to be comfortable around women. Get some practice in getting to know new people -- FEMALE people -- in a setting where there is less pressure because romantic interest isn't part of the context. Practice your charm on these ladies!

When you are feeling more at ease with your new female friends, you will find yourself also more at ease with potential romantic interests. And who knows? One of your fellow Weight Watchers may have a sister, daughter, niece she wants you to meet!

Answer 3

It's not ALL about the penis, believe me. And I don't need a man for money or security - I work a full time job & I have a home. I don't know about what all women want from men, but I want someone to build a long-lasting relationship with, someone I can love till the day I die & after, someone who will cherish me the way I will treasure him. I don't have a clue if such a thing exists outside of books & Hollywood because I haven't found it yet. I want the same thing you want - a good relationship.

According to your other questions, tho, you seem to have found the woman you want, you just can't have her because she's tied to someone else.

Answer 4

women want respect, love, caring and security from men.
the size of penis isnt a matter.of course women enjoy
great love making with her man.
money is not all women are looking for but all girls are
taught that they need to be with financially secured men by
her mamas. moneys not everything but something
because we need to survive or we have to go farm and hunt.
yes you can find a good relationship

Answer 5

Right..............first off, keep out of the bars........alcohol is high in calories,and as I suspect you are probably one of those "fat americans", keep to a strict diet and get plenty of hard sweaty exercise. (and I mean PROPER exercise)leave the burgers and hotdogs alone and when you are able to "walk up" to a woman without sweating and panting all over her, you may find yourself somewhat more sucessfull on the pull.

Answer 6

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