why do people like to hurt other peoples feelings?

Question

and dontsay to make themselves feel better cuz it couldnt be thet. ppl dont careif youve been through all of the bad things humanly imaginable they still dont care to make fun of you . why are ppl suck a$$holes?

Answer 1

Hurting other peoples feelings is one of the games people play . Such types of games are played either to make fun of other when you dont like that person (ofcourse, one can always choose to ignore instead of insulting but the negative path is always easy to tread on ) or to get attention or to get even . The wrongs are easily done but for the rights , effort has to be made .
Such an action is not only heartless but also lacks logic .
I personally think and strongly believe that somebody can hurt me only if i give them the importance to do so . Those who try to hurt me are not important enough for me to get hurt . And those who are important to me are so because they care for me . And if by chance they do end up hurting me , i understand accidents do happen .
So..............the crux of my looooooooooong answer is people hurt others because the others let them too , all factors apart . Coz if the others cant fight for themselves they deserved to be hurt for not respecting their one precious & priceless life .

Answer 2

I don't know, some people are just evil I think. Everytime my family hurts me, I just try to tell myself that what comes around goes around. Of course, this is after I cry my heart out. If you are talking about at school- one thing worked for my daughter: when someone was bullying her, she asked them, "Does treating me this way make you feel better? because if it does, then you need help, and if it doesn't, then why do you do it?" the person was speechless, then muttered "whatever" and walked away. You can try that. When kids at school bothered me, I used to hold my head high and say to myself- I am soooo much better than they are, they really are so ignorant of all things- and I would have this little smile on my face and have this air of authority that they left me alone. Now - i only did this to the ones who were mean to me, I didn't just go around acting like a snob!

Answer 3

Turn your feelings down a notch or two, and then arm yourself with a few witty comebacks to fire back at the proper time. This is a fine art form, and will require much practice with your delivery and timing to come out on top, without being rude or obnoxious. Think of it as Verbal Aikido, you redirect your opponent’s negativity and use it against them. The look on their face will be priceless if done correctly…

Answer 4

well most ppl have nothing better to do but to make fun of ppl and put others down.most of the time its because they think it makes them look cool if they do that most of the time its because of insecurities they have with themselves.just dont pay attention to them and theyll get bored and stop alot of the times they do it to get a rise out of u..if they know it bothers u theyll keep on so let it go in one ear and out the other and remember sticks and stones.

Answer 5

Some people are just vicious. I attribute it to poor upbringing. Their parents didn't raise them to be compassionate, they taught them to be judgmental and the worst part is that most of these cretins LOVE to say, "I'm just being honest!"
Most likely they were never corrected when they behaved so impertinently which was essentially a go-ahead to plow over whomever they choose!
These people are megalomaniacs for whom the "golden rule" is completely alien.

Answer 6

Most people whom enjoy to hurt others, feel powerful about it.
They feel strong and powerful on being able to cause such damage on others, kind of god's complexity, but in a negative way.

Answer 7

1) ignorance

2) to elevate themselves above you

3) egocentrism

4) Revenge

5) Hurting you because they feel hurt

6) Conditioned behavour (conditioning is basically being taught to behave certian ways for various reasons and exponentail amount of causes)

... i can't think of any other reasons

Answer 8

I believe people are mean because they have nothing better to do, they are dumb. They have probably have been teased themselves and this is their way to get revenge, but that is no excuse. Even if they are rude try to stay positive and turn their comment into something funny. Don't let them get to you.

~Best of luck

Answer 9

Some people (i shouldn't say most) are careless and selfish mostly don't care about others feelings. While some others are just born angry and stupid and they only get off on other peoples pain and suffering.

Don't let it get to you, just try to always stay honest.

Answer 10

Angie you are wrong.No body except the most selfish and egoistic person LIKES to hurt others feelings.Its mostly a mistake or a genuine error.
There is NO REASON WHATSOEVER.