Everything is falling apart?

Question

I don't know anymore. My best friend is doing drugs and I used to be able to talk to her about everything. my other two friends I hardly talk to. Everyone at school won't talk to me for some reason I dont know. I'm really shy and hardly talk to anyone but when I do they are just like "ew" I do nothing all the time because no one talks to me. My boyfriend won't give me any space and I'm not even sure if I want to date other guys or what. We've been together for 2 years. Hes getting really annoying I want to become a better christian but it's just not happenning idk im just venting sorry people

Answer 1

It's called life, chica... but what matters is how you deal with those changes. You need to talk to your friend about her drug use and how you feel about it - but don't judge her, just remind her how close you once were and that you care about her. Your boyfriend - sounds like you're too young to be with the same guy for 2 years - he's probably not annoying, you guys are just tired of each other and are looking for new experiences.

I don't know how to become a better christian - I'm studying Zen!

Good Luck!

Aloha!

Answer 2

Its ok to vent.
Perhaps people are not talking to you because you are withdrawing from them. Try to get around people a little more, try to overcome our shyness... You know that you are an interesting person (everybody is ) show up a little.
Two years with a boyfriend is a lot of time. So considere well about so you don't take frivilous decision about it.
The best thing is that you want to become better Cristian. Then, read the Bible, practice it, and pray to the Lord even more than you have done.
God Bless you.

Answer 3

first of all stop throwing the pity party going on in ur head right now focus if u want to be a better christion the pick up a bible or go to church. as for ur friend on drugs u cant help someone who wont help themselves.as the 2 friends who wont talk to u well then their not really good friends to begin with.and then its ur boyfriend who wont give u space first of all how old r u ?i take it ur young because ur still in school well if hes crowding u then u r probably getting bored with him and if since ur young then u need to date other guys see whats out there girlfriend dont just settle for the first boy who comes along and gives u a compliment.go fishing for a while and then later after u have found u a good catch then keep him for awhile.but dont worry about what other ppl say or not say to u just be urself and u wont after to worry about them once u get out of school.....

Answer 4

Things will work out. We all go through bad times, but life keeps on changing, and then good times roll in.

If you are unhappy with current circumstances, try changing things, but do it gradually, one step at a time. Just try to prioritize, see what's a more pressing issue right now, and go for it.

Let's take your friend, for example. You are concerned that she is using drugs, offer her your help. Even if you'd like to talk to her about your own problems, it probably is better to try and listen to the issues she has at the moment. Maybe she would like to try counseling. Drug addiction is tough to treat though, she is in for a long haul. But an attempt to help her will also make you feel better about yourself, you'll see. Even if your efforts are not too successful, it is still worth trying.

The issue with boyfriend is separate, but if you were to break up eventually, it's ok not to want to date other guys for a while. You will, when you are ready for it. Sometimes being alone helps one regroup and refocus, and concentrate on other things in life.

Hope this helps :)

Answer 5

I think I kinda know how you feel. It's hard to keep your focus when everyone around you is looking for answers in something else. Get close to God and try praying for your friend on drugs and your boyfriend. Don't let people put you down because they might think you're weird. You're not alone. I had a close friend and coworker who lost her mom in a car accident and turned to drugs and drinking. She lost her job and was arrested. I didn't criticise her, I only listened to her when she said she was having a bad day and told her I was there for her. She now works full-time with me, is getting her life back together and goes to church.
This is your time to shine when everything seems to be falling apart. I hope that it gets better for you... God bless

Answer 6

Dump your boy friend, buy some new clothes. Maybe change your hair a little.
And think about going to a gym. Just some light exercising. You might find out that you end up more relaxed and have more energy. and you might also meet some interesting people.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I hear ya, It will all pass in time and things will work out for the best just keep being good to people.

Answer 9

well count yourself as being blessed by god. the bible says abstain from the very appearance of evil. you must be doing something pleasing to god for all this to come at you. jesus was crucified by his own kind"church leaders" count it all joy whenb you suffer for gods sake... you need to be upset if your not being persecuted cuz that means satan is not worried about you cuz he already has you. i hope god will guide you through this and email me @[e-mail] if you wanna talk or n e thing. god bless and keep on walking in faith.

Answer 10

i know what that feels like except i quit using drugs and my friends who when i first started using them are using now because i got them to start i just had to make new friends