I'm totally and 100% completely crazy for a girl, but she now lives in another state.. I want to say I can just move on to a different girl, but today when I was out w/ a lot of my friends who happened to be girls, ALL I could think about was this girl that I've fallen so hard for. What do I do???
2006-06-16 20:29:58 · 17 answers · asked by makemyexistence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long Distance relationships are doomed to failure 99.9% of the time. You can try to make it work, but you will go broke paying for all the long distance phone calls, and there still is no guarantee she's not banging the lumpy guy who works the counter at the Taco Bell.
It just ain't worth the hassle and stress. Move on. Keep in touch with her, and if she moves nearby, start dating her again.
2006-06-16 20:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jim S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally am in along distance relationship with some one who is overseas,I know about the emotions and different things you go through when that person is not there to share them with you.I could not see moving on without this man in my life,he has been so good to me more so then any man I have ever been in relationship with.You have to trust your heart,dont listen to other people they will only keep you confused.You already know how you feel about this girl trust your own instincts if you two truly have something special together it will evolve into something all its own believe me mine has.You dont have to move if the two of you really care for each other in the right ways it will eventually happen for you.I also dont believe that if you are truly into this girl,that you would ever be happy about your decision if you just moved on and didnt try.
2006-06-17 03:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by medspri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try like crazy to give her up, cuz long distance relationships don't work I know. I had a guy only 1hr away from me and he cheated on me all the time, so move on as best as you can.
2006-06-17 03:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by tushpush1966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could start a long distance relationship with her, And go see her every 2 weeks. I have friends who are in long distance relationships and they are good together. They say, not seeing eachother for a while makes their relationship stronger, and makes them want eachother more. But yea, hope it works out fine for you, good luck
2006-06-17 03:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by #.::PenguiN::.# 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long-distance relationship seldom turns into long-lasting relationship. If she is staying in another state either go there or invite her to your place. If both the things you can not do then you have no choice than to forget her.
2006-06-17 03:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See where the relationship goes, and if it could withstand the distance, and when it is the right time and you are able to move closer to her do it. This is the true test as to whether or not this is meant to be...
2006-06-17 03:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long relationship myslef. Actually, now we are engaged. If you really loe her, it doesn't matter. You can still talk on the phone or online. When the time is right, you can go to her and she can come to you. if she's your match, don't lose her just for a few extra miles.
2006-06-17 03:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is very sweet that you care for this girl so much. And if you love her so much; you can still stay with her it may be hard but you can keep in contact via e-mail and you can write letters and the most obviously call her. and talk to her about the situation and discuss what you think you should do about the situation.GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!!
2006-06-17 03:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see her every couple of weeks...
Dude if you move there she'll just be another girl in a few months... keep it long distance...
dont move there for god sake
2006-06-17 03:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by nyccribs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brian lives in MN and I live in OH. He is going to move down here and marry me!
2006-06-17 03:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋