look my dad got together with my step mom when I was 6, as the time pass by I been noticing my step mom in a diferent way, like a woman, I'm 15 years old what can I do?
2006-06-16 20:23:10 · 23 answers · asked by hoppkinsrob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell her (keep the love in the family)
2006-06-16 20:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy and back off. As long as you realize it is only a crush the problem is under control. Get yourself a girlfriend, someone real special. Spend time with her. Your sexual drive needs to be channelized so find a partner who is willing. Once you have this in hand your looking at your step mom as a woman only would and will slowly disappear.
2006-06-16 20:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by aytu_y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that it is not unusual for guys your age to have those feelings even for their mother? Just find a girlfriend and wait your time out until you get a little older. Do not make a move on these feelings.
2006-06-16 20:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must feel horrible, im am very sorry you are going thru this but she is your step mom, your dad's girl, just try to forget her and find a nice girl of your own. i bet u can find a great girl for you.
2006-06-16 20:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your mother. She brought you up when you were a kid requiring some attention and maternal care. Throw away these thoughts. Study well and come up in life. Get yourself a girl of your age.
2006-06-16 23:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ramanathan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Wise, your step mum is only being motherly toward you.
It is not an odd situation, she will always be there for you, even should you happen to find a girlfriend...
2006-06-16 20:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time you start thinking of her as a step mother and not a lover.
2006-06-16 20:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Federico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. Or the next step is trying on her clothes.
Trust me.
2006-06-16 21:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. You're 15 and your hormones are raging. You need to focus your energy towards someone your age.
2006-06-16 20:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by scavenger_meat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to find older women attractive at your age. just keep that to yourself and the feeling will soon pass when you find someone you really like . just dont tell anyone about it
2006-06-16 20:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sooooooo wrong. Let it go. Don't help this feelings grow. It's not even love. Don't ruin things for every one with these feelings that you misunderstand.
2006-06-16 20:36:48 · answer #11 · answered by Katy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋