I have a guy friend that is really, really overweight, and really wants a girlfriend, by nobody is interested cuz he his so big. Besides losing weight (which he is trying to do) what can he do right now?
Thanks for your answers!
2006-06-16 18:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by bon b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I recommend not trying to get him a date. Support him as much as you can in believing in himself. Help him learn to love himself for who he is, not what others want him to be. Only when we love ourselves we open our hearts for others to get to us and for us to get to others. That will help him take the necessary steps to do what he needs to do next. Provide all the support you can in his battle....it is a battle...to lose weight. Support him no matter what!!! It must be great to have a friend like you. Good luck!
2006-06-16 19:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by gitmomagic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try going to places where overweight people go--to restaurants, weight loss groups, ice cream shops, etc., and have him strike up a conversation with someone. If his weight doesn't bother him, it won't bother most girls. Just be confident in yourself and don't focus so much on the weight. If people like you when you're overweight, they'll also like you if you lose weight!
2006-06-16 19:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im not trying 2 be mean or anything like that, but maybe u shud find another overweight person ( im talkg about finding an overweight chick), that is after a man that is caring, not just good looks. it shud work. trust me. i hav this sort of overweith friend thats had a few fellas but they were horrible
2006-06-16 19:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by yasmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the trick is his weight if he is determined to lose some weight so he will feel better about himself and look healthier for the girls. if yr his friend do this with him be serious this is a heath issue first. then dating issue. unless you want him to very sick later on in life. try this >>
2006-06-16 19:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there are plenty of girls who like BIG BOYS You just have to find the right one
2006-06-16 19:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get on the internet. I met my husband on the internet. Go into Yahoo chat and go into your state....... When he talks to someone, tell them that he is over weight... That work for me and I am over weight.
2006-06-16 19:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them some severley overweight guys and if they say thier too fat they dont deserve to go on a date
2006-06-16 19:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by lztexan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, try hard to loose weight, and wait for sometime.
2006-06-16 19:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should try yoga atleast one hour daily. live only on boiled vegetables and fruits atleast for two months.
2006-06-16 19:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by nisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another large girl. lol Someone he can relate to.
2006-06-16 19:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋