what if my girlfriends cheating on me??

Question

this guy i no said that my girl friend is cheating on me with 2 other people when i asked her a bout it she said he was lieing how do i no if she is??

Answer 1

I think you need to consider who has a motive for lying. Does your friend have anything to gain??? Does you girlfriend (of course she does)? Motives will help you decide. If she is cheating did you really think she was going to admit it.??? People who are comfortable cheating usually lack moral character.....and lying about it will be like breathing. You could always ask the guys she accused of cheating with. Personally...if I had to put that much effort into deciding if my boyfriend was cheating......I'd move on. I need to be able to trust who I'm with. Good luck. BTW....there are a lot of woman who have no need to cheat..... we won't look elsewhere for what we want......we'll tell you what we want from you, and how to do it.

Answer 2

If your girlfriend is cheating on you and you don't no it just check the way she acts if she starts to use reverse psychology then she is lying but she is trying to make you feel guilty about her mistakes check out her routines and she what times she makes it home or just follow her around for a week and be discreet take pics hire investigators and then do the accusing Good Luck

Answer 3

I guess you need to ask yourself how reliable is this person who told you she was cheating.
Usually it's possible to determine if someone is cheating, by things they do and say. Perhaps you can contact these 2 people that she's supposed to be cheating with. Do you know them?
Have you asked her if SHE knows them?

Answer 4

First of all Don't believe what others say unless they can prove it..Give you gf the benefit of the doubt. Some people are jealous and like to make others hurt because they have no one.or they just live to make others lives miserable.............Don't say anymore about it , if it is happening you will find out but tell her you trust her and just go on , if she thinks you don't trust her and would take someone elses word over her own then you are doomed

Answer 5

You gotta trust what you know. If you feel that you need to snoop around to find out then do so. But if she isn't and she finds out about it you may have risked your relationship over some hating on what you have. Also if you are more of the subtile type if you are that insecure about what you have to offer her then you need tobe cheated on. Otherwise just let her see what she missed out on if she is.

Answer 6

dont go by what people say. just ask her about it, but its not like a girlfriend would admit she is cheating on you that easily. but still, if you didnt see it for your self, you really cant prove anything. just wait till you catch her red handed. and once you do, dont get mad at the guy she is cheating on you with (if she is cheating at all) if the guy she would be cheating on you with didnt know you were her boyfriend, then he didnt know. so dont get mad. but if he did know, then WOOP HIS ***! lol

Answer 7

well all i can tell you is to do some research yourself but, don't make it look obvious. you must remember dudes lie like it ain't no tomorrow to get a girl from a dude. so find out yourself because you could end up losing a faithful girl.

Answer 8

if the guy is a good, trusted friend of yours then you should take it seriously. if it's just some guy you know he may be trying to break you and her up so he can go after here. don't get too paranoid tho just be aware of things like fake excuses, obvious lies and other fishy stuff.

Answer 9

Dan (53) is cheating on Gail (42) with his son's (Josh 20) friend who is 20!!!!!

Answer 10

No, dump the other two! Gossip boys are what I'm sick of, and make up stories for gossiping is worse!