I peeked into his account and saw he added a group that features transsexuals. I know he loves me and loves women, but I think this transsexual fetish is a deal breaker... Don't you???
2006-06-16 18:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Delilah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey it isnt an issue, He is showing an interest in an area which is almost a contradiction in terms, a beutiful woman with male appendage. He will be intrigued with this which also shows he is more accepting of other people and not biggoted in his view. If you can show the courage, share with him the sites he is looking at, try not to be negative. You may find that by sharing what interests him , your own sex life will improve. When men have sex, they often never think of their wives whilst doing so, Looking at some of the images you have found may well be what is stimulating your own sex life.
Now if this were your child doing something you disapproved of what would you do? I suggest you would talk with the child. Your husband should be treated in a similar manner.
2006-06-18 23:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by blacksheep557 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heyy..don't you worry. Most men have fetishes...so you've just found out the your has too. This isn't a reason to be mad at him. Why don't you try to talk with him? Try to make him confess peacefully and then ask him what exactly attracts him in transsexuals. Could be a moment-passion. If it's not, this doesn't mean that he don't love you.
2006-06-18 00:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by HappyPepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the kind of thing most men check on. I would be concerned if I were you. It could be a sign that he is bisexual, but going with a transsexual, might not seem the same thing as going out with some guy.
If you aren't married, time to dump this one, and find some guy, who is more into you, that a tranny.
2006-06-16 19:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a reason to leave him or think he is gay - the sexual aspect of it may turn him on as long as he is not involved - if he were with a transexual he may not get turned on and may actually be turned off by the site of a penis on person when concerning a sexual encounter - he may be attracted to the "taboo" of transexual sex - either way it does not matter - if he loves you, treats you well, loves sex with you, and everything else is right, then thats what matters - if things were different i could see your concern.
2006-06-19 07:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Qmarc Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married or just dating? Dating - then ditch him. Married (hopefully not with kids) - then ditch him. Married with kids - ditch him, take the kids, and move far away.
2006-06-16 18:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by testrun66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋