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How do you know which eye to look at when you are talking to them if one is looking over your left shoulder and one is looking to the right of you?

2006-06-16 18:37:13 · 113 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

113 answers

In the past, I've tried to look at the one that's looking at me, but it's too much of an effort so I usually look away as if something has caught my eye and I'm looking at whatever their other eye is focused on.

Wait a minute: is it a girl?

If so, then I play the despicable male and stare at her sweater zeppelins. If she's really hot, I'd be willing to overlook the eye thingy and ask her out....no, I take it back, it's just too disturbing.

2006-06-26 19:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Confucius 3 · 3 0

The shape of the eye is the same , just focus and talk .They know their eyes are not working as they should .Not too many perfect people in the world , yet we just don't point it out .Looking down or other places , might bother them .Be polite and respectful , they will pick up on this . There enough hateful , ( ugly people out here ) , just be a human being talking with a human being !

2006-06-16 18:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0 0

Wait till the person opens a gate...if the gate is opened to the left, look at the right eye, if the gate is opened to the right, look at the left eye...if the person opens the gate and jumps over the fence, don't worry about it, swop eyes every two and a half seconds.

2006-06-30 13:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Featherman 5 · 0 0

Oh my god its so funny that i ran across this one cause there is a guy i go to college with his eyes are like that and its hard to tell which way he is looking for real but u have to find something else to oncentrate on while conversating with the person other than eye to eye contact trust me it works but never judge a person because of the way they "look" always remember that its not the direction they are looking its the purpose in which they are tryin to look for :)

2006-06-26 06:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by snowbunny4u_2006 1 · 0 0

If you want to look at this person and not be distracted by eye direction look at the ear lop that is next to the eye that is looking at you. It will help you feel better and let the person know that you are listening. And the person dosen't know that your not looking at thier eyes this only works tho if you are standing at least two feet away. good luck

2006-06-26 10:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by ADELITA C 2 · 0 1

i havent laughed so hard in awhile...we are all so bad

my brother had this problem and as a child it didnt come to mind... but after leaving home and then returning it became an issue even with my own brother....i also had an employer with the problem...

i look in the middle, i have tried the looking from eye to eye but then its harder getting back to just looking straight in the middle... and can we really look into both eyes at the same time anyway? i dont think so... it is just that this difference becomes an issue to us making us uncomfortable as most differences do, making us more aware of where we ought to be looking... i donno... its sad that it makes one feel uncomfortable which inevitably makes all uncomfortable i'm sure....

2006-06-28 09:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by KAREN 2 · 0 0

If you are not standing too close to them look between the eyes they will never know the difference...lol

or look at the one that they use to focus on you with.

2006-06-30 03:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is best to look at the tip of the nose or at the eyebrows that way it appears that you are looking them in the eye, IF there is a wart on the nose go for the eyebrows.

2006-06-28 09:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by mist 1 · 0 0

You look straight ahead into their face. dont look at the eye thats looking at you because its drawing attention to that one eye. you should remain calm and make it seem as if everything is normal pay attention to the words so you dont make the person feel self conscience about their eyes. Its not their fault and they could be the most sweetiest person but someone will always make fun of them

2006-06-27 05:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by redserenity0804 3 · 0 0

Too Funny, I have always wondered this myself, usually i will look behind the person, and every couple of seconds look at there eyes. I have never had a long conversatin with anyone with this problem though.

2006-06-26 14:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cruegirl 1 · 0 0

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