i hve been very close to this guy for the pase 3 years and even though we never made it official i thought he was the one. until i found out that there was another girl.. and now 6 months later they are together and very happy... i feel used and really left out what should i do?
2006-06-16 18:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by OhSoSaD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well honey at least you found out now instead of wasting anymore time. What you do now is realize that you have wasted that time and it is to your benift because you learned a valuable lesson. MAKE SURE you are exclusive or don't bank on it. If you thought you were or had even discussed it and you both agreed that you were then he lied to you and cheated and you dont need him. Move on with your life and realise that you can and will be happy again. You will and you will take this lesson into the next relationship you have but don't make the next one pay for this ones mistakes and misgivings. If you need to talk more holla.
Good Luck
2006-06-16 18:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. The fact of the matter is that you were being used. Realize he was no good and that he did you a favor by not choosing you. You don't realize it now because you are still hurting, but you will someday.
2006-06-17 01:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with his best friend. no, just joking!
With your opened heart, ask yourself is that true, or were false illusions that YOU made?
whatever the answer, don't blame anyone, don't feel like that, in any case it is an experience and certainly you have learn a bunch of things.
Be positive, someone better for you is out there!!
smile
2006-06-17 01:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by loalabat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he found , u r impossible to get, he went for other girl. He has done correct thing. How long should he wait for u. That girl must have confessed her love for him. You are egoistic and never told him but must have showed all ur tantrums.
2006-06-17 01:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish them well and move on. There is nothing else you can do. They're living their lives and you should too. Have a really good cry and then let it go.
2006-06-17 01:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that buster to kick rocks stay busy love yourself enjoy you and don't look for a dude but when one comes around then check him out if you feeling his vibe
2006-06-17 01:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by calibling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so hard isnt it ....there is nothing you can do ...what yo are feeling is grief ....go thu that you need it to heal ...and well before you know it you willl have moved on .......
2006-06-17 01:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him mentally. He was stupid that he didn't choose you. Get someone better that you care for.
2006-06-17 01:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋