She was nice to me when i first met her at school as her Teaching assistant. I was the one to mark her papers. The day i picked up her paper she told me to phone her after exams are over and she reminded me online as well. We use to chat online and she said we'd have a day for sushi together. I still remember that same day she gave me her cell phone number as well so that after the course was over we could eat out. Once exams was over, she no longer appeared online anymore. I called her but she told me she could't make it because her church was far away. Two weeks later she called and said we could go for dinner. I made many attempts on all forms of communication e.g.phone, text message, e-mail to get her to come out and eat together only to get no response from her except for a text message saying "i was out of time for awhile,i know u called so i will call you tomorrow." I didn't receive any calls from her. I was hoping this one would be my first love. She even said i was honest.
2006-06-16 18:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by bsmil_azn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound so sweet the way you are hanging on her every word. The best thing that you can do is trust your own instincts. If she has become cold for no reason that you can think of, (you didn't do anything wrong) she is probably talking with someone else or simply not as honest as you are. Are you always contacting her first? Do you feel like you are always chasing her down? Is it one excuse after another? Try asking her out one more time and ask her what date would be good for her. If she can't come up with one, move on. She may have. Or back off for a while and see if she contacts you. There could be things going on in her life that she doesn't know how to tell you about. Again, trust your gut feeling. Your usurally right and will kick yourself later. I hope she is just busy.
2006-06-16 18:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by snowhite 2 · 19⤊ 2⤋
Well, it seem to me that you were just a friend slowly turnig into nothing. Did you ever ask her if she had a boyfriend? There is a slight chance that she just wanted to talk t you to see her grade on the exams, or there is another chance that she actually wanted to talk to you. But you will never know unless you call her and if she answers and gives you an excuse, tell her you will call back and then tell her to send you to her voicemail and leave her a message saying all that you want/need to say. Most likely, she may be confused and will be forced to call you bak and talk to you to "straighten" things out.
2006-06-16 18:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by pretty1girl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing you. i think you should move on to somebody else. i think ya'll just had a little something to relate to. because if she steady saying that she can't and she's too far out somewhere. that means she ain't interested. she's trying to find a easy way to let you go. because she doesn't have much interest in you probably. she might be hoping that you don't call no more and you forget of her. all i can say is find someone else because i think you deserve to.
2006-06-16 18:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Young Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her...shes not too serious about you...how old is she??...she's probably grounded....she sound to me like she'll get whatever she want from you then when she's sick and tired she'll disappear. don't count on her....seems like she wanted to get close to you at first but then she realised that something about you just won't click with her...or she was probably in love or got back in love with someone else...
don't be such and easy guy...play "hard to get" a little bit and you'll find your love not not some chick messing with your head.
2006-06-16 18:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by **sweetbabe** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yall arnt really anything....she seems like maybe shes just playing games, ya know?
2006-06-16 18:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tawnya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with nothing. Well, an online buddy. Nothing serious.
2006-06-16 18:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just had you as a part time friend....maybe she felt lonely and wanted to have someone to talk with....honestly she treated you like crystal and then stomped on it so forget her...she just used you
2006-06-16 18:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but an acquaintance.
2006-06-16 18:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing you........She's not worth the worry
2006-06-16 18:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's busy....or she considers you as a friend, that's all.
2006-06-16 18:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by BEBE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋