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move out

2006-06-16 17:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1 0

You could try to talk to your mom about your need for privacy in an adult way. Many parents believe that while you are living in their homes, you are subject to their rules and I agree. They are, after all, working hard and paying good money to make sure you have a roof over your head and food in the house. It would be sad if you were to get into trouble or cause problems with your personal behavior while they are trying to take care of you, so parents tend to be overprotective.

Have a respectful conversation with your mom and explain that you would like more privacy and you understand that it may require you to take on more responsibility. If you want they to trust you more and stop intruding, then you have to show you can be an adult. Offer to take up more chores in exchange for more privacy.

If all else fails, get a job, save money and move out. Then you can see what it takes to takkeep a roof over your head, food on the table and to stay out of trouble.

2006-06-16 17:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by SUM22 3 · 0 0

remember that old saying that starts: "as long as you live under my roof....", well, this is one of those things that falls under this category. If your underage, forget it, you don't have any right to privacy because you are still considered a child in their eyes and the eyes of the law. If your over 18, deal with it until you move out or go to college or just... away. I know, it sucks to hear but its the truth. Until that time comes, think of clever ways to keep things from them. Buy a safe or find a hole in the wall or your matress, etc. Again, i know it sucks but you gotta deal.

2006-06-16 17:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by vail2073 5 · 0 0

Your mother cannot violate your privacy

2006-06-16 17:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by welshpinoy 2 · 0 0

With violating her privacy.

2006-06-17 01:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you think you can get away with it, haul off and smack the s h i t out her just one time. She will get the point then. Otherwise you just out of luck. She's the parent so she do whatever she wants to do. If you don't want to smack some since into her, the get 2 steps ahead of her that way she has nothing to violate.

2006-06-16 17:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by purrlywhites 3 · 0 0

MOVE OUT if you're over 18.

If not, then you're screwed, seriously. Maybe if you got a job, paid some of the bills, you could have a say on what's what in your room. Or make enough money to buy a safe for your belongings.

2006-06-16 17:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by dujoi84 1 · 0 0

Walk in on her while she's taking a shower, taking a dump or getting busy w/ your dad! Keep it up until she agrees to stop invading your privacy.

2006-06-16 17:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew P 3 · 0 0

I recommend that you enable him talk consisting of his mom as a lot as he needs. in the different case this may be the starting up of a few extreme marriage issues between you and him. and then both of you'll purely finally end up arguing with one yet another for ever and ever instead of playing existence. you won't be able to replace such an considerable courting for a guy with out replacing him as someone.

2016-10-31 00:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't. An involved mom is a caring mom. Feel blessed that you are loved. If you feel violated try talking with her and being more open and she will feel better about what you are up to. And lastly, JUST WAIT TO YOU HAVE KIDS! Take care.

2006-06-16 17:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0 0

you cant, if you are living in her house then she has say over all that you have. if i was you i would get some sort of locker and put a lock on it, tell her you have nothing to hide but want some privacy.you have to let her know that you are growing up,i hopr yo uare 16 or older untherwise it wont work.you are still a kid.

2006-06-16 17:42:51 · answer #11 · answered by Christina 6 · 0 0

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