I love my mother very much..It doesn't mean she is not loving me .She loves more my brother than me . it frustrates me and I am feeling revenge towards my mother & brother .what can i do .please help .
2006-06-16 17:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I doubt your mother loves your brother more. Maybe it's you who just needs more attention than your brother. In reality, if you're feeling this way, it could be a good thing. Parents generally pay more attention to a child who struggles or makes wrong decisions all the time. The reason is because they're trying to raise that child up to the other childs level of understanding. So if you have your act together, you are doing good and do not require the additional attention and guidance.
2006-06-17 02:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by kathy059 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well that is a common feeling among guys of your age.It doesn't mean your mother loves your brother more than you.It is just a matter of givine importance at the right time.So don't worry about it.
Good luck.
2006-06-16 17:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all Fathers and Mothers love all their children . You might feel she loves your brother more - well it could be that normally parents show MORE concern and take EXTRA CARE towards their weaker child.
Suggest U remove that concern -- Well I too had that notion all my life till I became a father myself , its then that I realised what I just told you above.
Keep loving your parents as you hv only one lifetime fopr that
2006-06-16 17:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont have revenge on your mom just sit down and talk to her and say mom i feel like you love my brother more than me and the rest should work out
2006-06-16 17:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by bbodington1323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the eldest?
Some mothers show a little more attention toward the younger ones, it by no means indicates that she loves you any less.
If you are the eldest, be more supportive toward the situation...
2006-06-16 17:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it (especially the revenge part?).
Try to see things from your mother's point of view, 'with eyes unclouded with hate.' Hee hee.
2006-06-16 17:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by dujoi84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude I no what you mean, but you know what, even identical twins get treated differently even though they seem so similar at first. The fact is, you just don't act the EXACT same way with everyone, and I would just not worry about it.
2006-06-16 17:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Pyr0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur mom might not know that she is playing favorite o talk to her and explain to er tat its not fair that u and ur brother don't get treated the same!Tell her how u feel cause she might not have known!
2006-06-16 17:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by hot beach babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK DUDE FIRST IF ALL DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID. I SYMPATHIZE WITH YOU CAUSE I TO HAVE THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM I HAVE GROWN TO DISLIKE MY MOTHER AS WELL SO MUCH THAT I HAVE ALIENATED MY SELF FROM HER AND DISOWN FORGET ABOUT IT, LOOK IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE ABOUT TO CROSS THE LINE E- MAIL BEFORE YOU YOU COMMIT SOMETHING YOU MIGHT REGRET. GOOD LUCK KID
2006-06-16 17:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by cookiemonsta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shows her love in diff ways dont get mad
2006-06-16 17:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋