I saw an old girlfriend today for the first time in a LONG time. We caught up on the years- gone- by and it was nice. She got married and has kids..... I didn't and I don't.
The years have been good to BOTH of us...... just independently.
What happens when YOU "catch up" with a long-lost love?
How does it feel?
What do you say?
What DON'T you say?
2006-06-16 17:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by TeaSwami 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For most people it feels good just to know how things are going for the other person because most of the time you hope things are going well for them. One thing you don't say is miserable your life is. If it is then keep that to yourself just say things could be going better but it seems to be getting back to good. Don't give gory details about how much the break up hurt and how much you want to get back together and all that stuff. For the most part keep things very general because you know know how things have changed for them.
2006-06-16 17:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends which one of my old flames I see. I have two of them that I hate cos they either lied to me or humiliated me. I spent years trying to find the one who humiliated me and I could never decide what would I do when I saw him: kill him with my sheer hands or tell him how happy I am with my current partner. Not so long ago I found him via the net at last and his profile showed that he was a neonazi. And so I decided not to get in touch with him. As for the other one who "just" lied to me. I still don't know whether I would talk to him at all and if yes what would I say. As for the other past flames I feel completely indifferent. We just greet each other then go by without stopping for a chat.
2006-06-20 20:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Iseult 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH!!!!
how amazing the same thing happened to me today i saw an ex boyfriend of mine we just looked at each other in shock he came up to me and said hi he gave ma a kiss on my cheek. we talked abt what were doing with ourselves now and it kind of led back to do you want to catch up some time maybe lunch i said that would be good i had already told him that i was in a good relationship and he didnt seem to mind after abt 10mins his girlfriend arrived and he introduced us. he asked me if i still have the same mobile numberi said yeah he said he still no my number off by heart after 5 years its amazing but i just stopped it there because i know where its going to lead to
2006-06-16 17:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's married she's obviously found someone else to love and is happy and okay with her new life. If you don't feel the same way about her that you used to then you just chat like friends, or strangers. Dont mention anything about the past unless she brings it up first...its just kind of awkward.
2006-06-16 17:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love women...I do, they are all beautiful...I wish I could spend some time to get to know all the women in the world...old flames are old...I got to keep truckin brother...she is married and has kids...what diference does it make what you say...you must be feeling down...go out and have a party...enjoy life...you'll forget about her.
2006-06-16 17:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by James T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't wait to catch up with my old flame he is all I can think about eventhough im married and have a child i think it all depends on both of you situations
2006-06-16 17:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by angelicprincess23602 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that suckz man but ive been in relationships that are like rollercoaster rides.the old flames come back for some reason so far they always do but it all depends on the relationship was before you both parted from one another also.
2006-06-16 17:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by raylovesdaladies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on who it was. Some from my past I would rather leave there. Others I don't wish any ill will, it just didn't work for us. One thing to never say is have you ever wondered what it would have been like now if........ If it was ever meant to be, you'd be together now.
2006-06-16 17:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by mopargrapeape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depend's if you still have feeling's for them. I wouldn't just come out and tell them since she is married and all...I mean if she is happy then don't try and brake her family up..Just ask her how she is..tell her ur glad her life is great..I really don't know
2006-06-16 17:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by big10pointers_baby_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum...well, I guess you could say that my relationships have ended badly, becuase my answer to this would be: vomit.
2006-06-16 17:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋