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I don't have a boyfriend, its been 6 years since i have dated, and when i go to the store or something and people that know me because of my parents ask me if i married or have any childern they say that i should be already. but i love my life the way it is right now!! i don't feel like i should rush into anything.

2006-06-16 16:12:20 · 22 answers · asked by Shy-Angel 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Everyone lives their life differently.

One person sleeps during the day, another at night.
One person prefers Pasta, the other prefers Steak.
One person wears blue all the time, another wears tie-dye.

It doesn't matter what others think about what you should be doing or what you should be or where you should be in life. It's YOUR life, not theirs.

There's people that are elderly AND are virgins. Why? Maybe sex wasn't as appealing to them as society makes it out to be now.
There's people that drive like maniacs on the roads. Why? Because they're trying to get somewhere in a hurry, or just don't care about the law.
There's lawyers. Why? Well, because we have to have a balance between good and evil, and we all know what side the lawyers are on. (LOL) Just kidding.

What I'm trying to say is, is that some think that others should be a certain way because it's in style, or because they're that way and someone isn't.. so they point that out.

What's my advice? Live your life. It's yours, not theirs. If you're happy with the way your life is going, then keep going! Don't put YOUR life to a stop to live YOUR life THEIR way. If you end up getting married, then you'll cross that bridge when you come to it.

Enjoy your life, go live it your way.

2006-06-16 16:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian Wolf 2 · 1 0

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2016-11-14 21:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by mastrolia 4 · 0 0

I don't know why but people always try to look down on someone for not dating or being married. Some people can go through life without getting married or dating. It isn't pathetic, I will still be living with my parents until I gradutate medical school (at 25)
Unless I get married before then, then I am definately moving out =P.

2006-06-16 16:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0 0

Life is endless in it's unique possibilities. Only you can allow those possibilities to occur.
Living at home is dependent on who you are living with. If it is your parents (or guardian) and they are in control of the shelter, then they determine your length of stay. If they are open ended with that length of time, then the decision becomes yours.
Here are some additional suggestions:
1. Remain at home only if it is a safe situation.
2. Save money like if you are paying rent.
3. Enjoy the time with people who are older than you.
4. Use your additional free time productively.
5. Learn to live away from home while at home.

2006-06-16 16:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by VLOXY 2 · 0 0

You're not pathetic!!! I'm in the same boat. After seeing most of my friends have children, I'm satisfied to be where i am. I see how difficult it is for them, appreciate the freedom i have. As for finding a man-I haven't yet. I am looking- I'm just not willing to SETTLE for just anyone who comes along. The way i look at it is that it's my life, i'll settle down when I'm ready-not when others think I should!!! DON'T LET OTHERS PRESSURE YOU :)

2006-06-16 16:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, 24 is still young to me. You've got time.

But don't spend half your life waiting for "Mr. Right", who might never come along. At about age 30, select a "Mr. GoodEnough" so you don't waste your young years with nobody.

Good Luck, ShyAangel!

2006-06-16 16:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0 0

Nothing wrong with living your life the way you want. Nobody has the right to say otherwise. If they want to put someone down for anything, they need to start within their own. Hi.

2006-06-16 16:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by wolfman 5 · 0 0

You're fine. Don't worry, I had a language teacher in 7th grade who was 25 and lived with her parents.

2006-06-16 16:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

enjoy your single life. you aren't living for the others so you don't have to care about what they say. just do what you want when the right time comes. it is absolutely not pathetic.

2006-06-16 16:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by yiub 2 · 0 0

it's actually smart to live at home. 24 still young yo! there's girls in this country (japan) well into their 30's living at home and single still. your parents friends only ask you that because there's nothing else for them to ask ya. don't worry about it!

2006-06-16 16:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by crunked 2 · 0 0

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