I sent an email to my boy f about my decision for our relation ( friendship or couple) and ask for his decision. But I haven't got reply from him for 01 week. I want to ask YOU
how long does it take a man to answer that kind of quesion? What would you react if you want to be friends OR couple?
What should I do? ( cause I am not very patient)
Note: Currently, his business is becoming much worse.
He is a kind of cautious man, in any cases.
2006-06-16 15:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
IS THIS A QUESTION OF MARRIAGE OR ABOUT BEING IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP IN GENERAL? FIRST OFF, LET ME TELL YOU THIS.MOST MEN DON'T APPRECIATE BEING "PRESSURED" INTO ANYTHING IN THE BEGINNING.IT'S A LITTLE DIFFERENT ONCE YOU BECOME MARRIED.THE POINT IS YOU NEED TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THE QUESTION TO FIND OUT HOW HE REALLY FEELS ABOUT YOU.IF HE'S NOT READY,THEN DON'T PRESSURE HIM.IF YOU'RE READY TO MOVE ON AND HE'S NOT, THEN OBVIOUSLY THERE'S A PROBLEM THERE.LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND ALSO HEAR HIM OUT AND ASK HIS OPINION ON THINGS,IF HE CARES YOU TWO WILL WORK IT OUT.IF NOT,THEN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!
2006-06-16 15:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by MRLETSB4REAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit and re think if HE IS THE MAN for you. If you feel he is then WAIT. May be for another week.. And for Pete's sake why dont you speak to him probably face to face and discuss rather than emailing????
2006-06-17 01:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Suha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you e-mail him instead of asking him personally? If he is too busy working to have a conversation he is definitely too busy to be married.
2006-06-17 08:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him in person, email is bad for stuff like this. You don't even know if he read it.
2006-06-21 20:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't receive your email. It happens sometimes
2006-06-17 08:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by nunjogomez17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support him its his bad time and be patient god will help you
2006-06-17 01:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by zalandkasi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is busy or may be he is not intrested
2006-06-17 09:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Shery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pressured your boyfriend....if you really love him you can wait him
2006-06-17 01:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by mae_robelle_050588 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋