I sent an email to my boy f about my decision for our relation ( friendship or couple) and ask for his decision. But I haven't got reply from him for 01 week. I want to ask YOU
how long does it take a man to answer that kind of quesion? What would you react if you want to be friends OR couple?
What should I do? ( cause I am not very patient)
Note: Currently, his business is becoming much worse.
He is a kind of cautious man, in any cases.
2006-06-16 15:37:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on he took to long
2006-06-16 15:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by cwb63ss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to commit right now, and it sounds like you brought this up at a bad time when he's focusing on his business which may backfire on you. He probably liked the friendship part with the sex without having to commit to you about being a couple.
2006-06-16 22:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Or meet with him.
Why on earth would you send a question like that to him via email?
I think you should sit down face to face and actually TALK about your relationship.
That way, you'll get an immediate response if that is what you are looking for.
2006-06-16 22:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Sensitivity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl are we dating the same dude or something mine is the same way. last night i left him a message asking him basically things about are relationship if he wants to stay together or befriends or i ask him things that he says to me that later on it sounds crazy and then i want to know what he means by it. i waited for his call this morning so we could talk and he didn't call like he does and that be driving me crazy that it pisses me off. Then later he calls saying he got my message but didn't listen to it all because i was starting to trip again. when actually i just wanted to talk about how i was feeling.
alot of men just don't like to answer are questions because they fell we are just tripping and they don't have the time. Or they think what we are talking about is stupid and they don't feel they need to speak on it.
Ur dude is probably oh well f it.
i would just wait for him to call and then ask him the question or wait til u are around him.
2006-06-16 22:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok he probably didnt take the question very well,mayb he didnt like that question he probably felt hurt he thought ur not 2 sure of wut u want confuses him too.or mayb his too busy n hasnt been able to read the message.bcuz it doesnt take a man that long to answer a question like that.he should have answered u rite away n if he didnt then he is being insensitive for not thinkin of how ur feelin rite now n selfish for keepin u waitin that way.well hope this helped
2006-06-16 22:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by adrined 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the answer is so important,,forget email,,do it the old fashion way,,pick up the TELEPHONE,,call this guy and just ask him!!,, and I'm sure he has checked his email by now,,a week!! yes he has checked it,,sounds like he may not want anything more then what he has now,sorry!
2006-06-16 22:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to give him a call than wait forever for his reply.
2006-06-16 23:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by awin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up and ask if he got his email, if he has and didn't bother to respond kick him to the curb if his excuse isn't good enough.
2006-06-16 22:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't give a ****. Guys don't make decisions they just go with the flow. If it happens, it happens. Don't push it.
2006-06-16 22:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by indeseller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be a couple you wouldn't have had to ask him, you would already know. Move on.
2006-06-16 22:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey maybe he has not check his email yet.i say give him another 4 days if he doesn't respond forget about him because u deserve better that him.
2006-06-16 22:52:12 · answer #11 · answered by M$. N!CK@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋