i want to tell my mom that i don't like livning in MI and that i want to move back to CA but i don't know how?

Question

see me my mom and my brother moved to MI 9 months ago and i hate it i would go back to Ca myself but my mom will just come get me because i am only 15.

Answer 1

"Mom, I hate living here and I want to go back to California."

She'll say no, because she moved for MI for a reason.

When you're 18 and working for a living, you can live anywhere you want. 3 years isn't that long to wait.

Answer 2

Well, I would say first evaluate your situation. Why did you move? What were you mothers reasons? Do you go to a good school now MI? Have you TRULY given every effort to like MI, tried to make friend, got a hobby? Have you spoke to your mother that your home sick? What is her response. Ever think maybe moving she doesn't like it either but knows what is best for right now. Life is about what you are doing right now and were you are working towards. If you live in the now unhappy what kind of future are you going towards.
Think you are 15, you have three or so years until you go off to college, so you can ask to go back to Ca, break your mothers heart, potentially have made a bad decisions because life has changed and things aren't the same? Or you can give it your all and make MI work, get good grades and go away to college. There are so many ways to make something unpleasant work. Get a hobby that you can occupy your mind. I wish you the best of luck. Being a teen we know what we want and why, sad thing is when you look at the big picture or the repercussion if we did what we did it would not be for our best interest.
My thoughts are coming from a person who wanted to do what she wanted as a teen, but I did as I was told and did well in school, but I loved to dance, I followed my dads rules and he'd let me go to dances once a week. That was great, my escape. I am also speaking to you as a mother, I am a mother of two daughters and some decisions I make for them really stink as far as they are concerned, but a mother would never do something that she knows would harm her children in anyway. Being an adult and having children and wanting to have a part of your life your own you make stuff decisions. All I can say is give it a gooed try and then calmly and honestly let your mother know how you feel without anger and drama. One way you can do is, talk to her let her know your feelings and that your going to try, you'll get a hobby, you'll meet people and if it doesn't work out after six months a year you'd like for her to let you go back. Who is still in Ca you can live with ? Also, maybe if you just say I am home sick can I have a set number of times a year I can go visit or can I have a old friend come visit. Well best of luck

Answer 3

Your mom already knows. She is your MOM. I think what you're trying to say is that you want to ask your mom for permission to move back to CA. If your dad is in CA and you want to live with him, you need to tell your mom while you are serving her some morning coffee (not the first cup). If you want to move back and live independently from your family, prepare documents, or an outline (like doing a term paper or business plan), with an overview of where you would be living (with a letter of permission from the adult of the home), school plans, transportation plans, plans on how to pay for your living expenses : food, medical, clothing, extra-curricular activities, etc. If you think you would not have extra-curricular activities or medical expenses, then you are too naive/immature to move to CA without your family.
I think it is normal for any 15 yr old to be unhappy about moving out of state, or even changing school districts. Your friends are in CA. Your mom had to make a choice, and she thought she had to move to MI. If you cannot move back there, you have the internet. You can stay in contact. Life is tough sometimes. Hang on !

Answer 4

Moving is hard at first! Have you tried to sit down and talk to your mom about how you feel? She may not move you back, but she may listen and try to give you suggestions on how to improve your situation. I moved when I was 15, and it took a long time for me to adjust, but I did! I know it's hard, but there is not much you can do since you are not 18. Unless you are in some kind of abusive situation, just stick it out and things will eventually get better. Take it from someone who survived a move at exactly your age!

Answer 5

Unfortunately you are a minor and you have to go where your mom takes you. Tell her how you feel and maybe during the summer you can go back for a week and visit your friends. But otherwise it'll be better for you to stop fighting it, accept it, and start a new life in MI. Good Luck

Answer 6

Do you have some friends and family in CA that your mom knows. may be you can talk to your mom and get a permission to stay with them till your 18 and then you can be at your own.

Answer 7

only tell her that the international needs you and for that you want your own base to operate from.tell her that independence builds personality and that you're waiting to spread your wings.That she must trust your determination because she gave you a sturdy upbringing.you may locate counsel on a thanks to face on your own ft because they might no longer be there perpetually to look out for you and at the same time as they're nevertheless there top this second they could be able to nevertheless assist you to advance strong on your independence. My mom only were given the neighbor to bypass and drop me off on the military base.

Answer 8

I live in MI too, and personally, i hate its weather. Go back to California if you really want to live there. just talk to your mother stright forward that you don't want to live MI any more. You should never be afraid to talk to your parents. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Is there another relative in CA who can support you? Maybe they can help convince your mom that they will look out for you.

Answer 10

U should just sit down and tell her the best you know how!