Ok, tonight I went to the movies with a group of friends, including the guy I liked. Well, after the movie, I just came out and told the guy that I liked him. He said he liked me too, and he thinks we should hang out again. He said he didn't know because we are really good friends, which we are. Now, I need an unbiased opinion. If I were to ask my friends, they would all say what I want to hear, which is not what I need. He confused me, and I want to know what he means when he says that. Does he really like me? Is he sincere? Please help!
2006-06-16 15:13:36 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your love interest wants to get to know you, to see if you are potential girlfriend material. Sometimes guys and girls that have been friends for so long are hesitant to start a relationship. They are afraid of basically ruining a good friendship...like in the event of the break up.
I say go for it, hang out one on one without all of your other buddies around. I believe that he really does like you! But he is really loyal to the friendship that you guys already have. But you know something? Friendships are always the best foundations for a romantic relationship.
After you guys hang out, I am positive that he will decide to take you on as a full time girl. Just see how the night goes. If it goes good, mention causally after you guys have hung out a few times, just ask where everything stands. If it happens that he is still apprehensive about starting anything, just tell him that life is all about chances. You need to take a risk, and you never know what will happen until you try.
Good luck girl, and try not to read into this situation too much. He is just worried about losing his good buddy. But I am sure in time that he will be your new beau and all of this worrying will be a thing of the past!!
2006-06-16 15:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by katisadiva 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that he likes you but like he said you guys are good friends...but all guys are confusing like this just hang out with him anytime you can just the two of you and you can try to talk to him and ask him what you wanna know thats the only way you can know for sure but dont ask when hes around his friends...you might not get the ture answer
2006-06-16 15:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 00:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last guy i liked told me he wanted to "hangout", and now all we do is hangout like "freak buddies," but we are not a couple, and I dont think he plans on pursuing a relationship with me. It depends on how u feel about this guy. If u want to be his girlfriend then tell him u want to do more then hangout, like doing girlfriend and boyfriend stuff- spend time, go on dates, etc.
2006-06-16 15:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by GaPeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cannot ask us if he is sincere and if he really likes you we arent him and we won't know.
Now if you like him and he says he wants to hang out I'm pretty sure he is saying hey i like you lets hang out and get to know each other better. Thus in turn I guess I am saying go for it he probably likes you.
2006-06-16 15:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him this: (how much do you like me?)
if he says a little then he isn't very interested i'm sorry to say
if he says enough he is somewhat interested but probably shy.
if he says alot he is either outgoing and truthful or just a nice guy that doesn't want to break your heart- same goes if he answers that he wont tell you how much he does.
2006-06-16 15:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you but he doesn't want to be rushed into making a commitment. He wants to get to know you better before making your relationship "official".
2006-06-16 15:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually that indicates he wants to take it slow and see how things go. Probably a good thing rather than rushing into things.
2006-06-16 15:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you, but wants to take his time going into a relationship.
2006-06-16 15:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex only.
2006-06-16 17:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋