of course it's gonna be fathers day my dad hasn't seen me and i haven't seen him in about 6 months. it's weird cause i leave him messages. try and call him but he never calls back. and i feel really sad. i got him a present for fathers day, (my mom is making me) i feel as though if he doesn't see me why should i? i'm gonna feel so akward seeing him! is this a sin? (not wantin to see your father)
2006-06-16 15:13:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're entitled to your feelings.
2006-06-16 15:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by furious but whatever 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It was about 12 years for me before my father spoke one word to me and I was a adult, I understand what you are feeling and why you are feeling this way. The first thing you need to ask yourself is "are these feelings mine or my moms" By this I mean do not make your moms issues your own. (not saying you do) second you need to realize that you have no reason to feel guilty. You are the child and parents make the decisions. Yes I agree that maybe a present is good but do not feel guilty about being upset about the way your father is.
2006-06-16 22:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short to be angry with anyone.keep trying to reach out to him. he probably needs you now more than ever. he is your father & no matter what nothing can change that! why should you cry, instead pray that all is well with your father.let him know that you are there & will be there for him when ever he is ready. feeling awkward when you see someone under your present circumstances is your own emotions. you are human, emotions , feelings & different thoughts will come to you. you cannot control that but you can control your words & actions.love him for who he is,just the way a parent loves his child no matter what
2006-06-16 23:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by walls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it. If he hasnt contacted you in 6 months, he probably wont on father's day either. And if he does, it's no biggie. It will be ok. You're just worrying for nothing. He hasnt changed all that much in 6 mos. But I bet YOU have!
2006-06-16 22:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a sin its just emotions.i really understand because a father gives you half of what you need in life. and see now it may not be my father but my grandmother is like that and sometimes you have to remember that life doesnt stop for him or you but if you go you will probaly see what you dont want to see but when you do youll understandhow he really is and just contuie to show him love. and yes its going to hurt but hey! you have a mother who understands you and thats what really counts.
2006-06-16 22:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by babyladylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents tend to go throug periods on depression that kids can't begin to understand. If you love him reach out to him and let him know that you do. Let him know that you are and always will be a part of his life no matter what happens.
2006-06-16 22:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if he doesnt call you back he doesnt sound like a good dad and if i was you i would not see him! I would go to the mall or to the movies or stay in my room or anywhere away from my dad
2006-06-16 22:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the good memories you had with him
2006-06-16 22:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋