Oh my God, my boyfriend is cheating on me. I'm like whatever right now. I dont give a ****. I just called him and a woman answered the phone, he took the phone and said I should call him back. The woman sounded pissed. Whatever. I have any boyfriend on the side so its his lost. I figured out that he was cheating so I hooked up with another boy. He always makes time for me. Why do men cheat? Why are they so cruel? Well, it doesnt really hurt. I just dont care anymore.
2006-06-16 15:11:38 · 13 answers · asked by Diabla 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's in their nature. They are less evolved beings than woman. They cheat because of physical reasons (i.e., need a nut, bored with their girl's sex, etc.), we do it for emotional reasons, such as we need someone to talk to, or someone that pays attention to us... They don't know they're doing it until its a done deal. They're too dumb to realize that they could be hurting someone in the process..
2006-06-16 15:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Hard Head 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know I am sick and tired of hearing each side(myself included) complaining on why men are so cruel or why women are so cruel. Stop generalizing damnit! It's certain men, and certain women who cheat, not all of them. I was with a girl for over a year and a half, I didn't ever cheat on her once, never thought about any other girls, I loved her, but apparently she didn't love me when I found out she was cheating on me.
If anyone wants to find a good guy, we are all around, but half the time we get blown off by the pretty faces.
Now to answer the main question.
I have to say nice job not only did you prove that you have a get even personality, but you also are a very cruel person yourself.
You should of just broken up with him instead of "hooking up with someone else." Why would you go and make yourself look like a heartless icequeen when he was the one at fault originally?
I have started asking girls on the first date if they have ever cheated on a boyfriend and if they say yes I dump em then and there....well after I take them home, but mentally.(well next day not when I take em home dont want to ruin someones night.)
If you truly do not care, then maybe that is why he cheated on you because you never cared in the first place. If you are not heartbroken over this or at least a little sad then it was a good thing you two split up.
2006-06-16 16:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking why men cheat in a question where you admit to cheating as well. Think about that. People who lack fidelity and personal integrity cheat, regardless of gender. If you have self-respect, you'll confront your boyfriend and then break things off before going out with another man yourself. Try that next time.
2006-06-16 15:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by JStrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for different reasons - but if you cheated too then it doesn't make you much better. Many times people cheat when there is little to no communication and there are major problems in the relationship.
2006-06-16 15:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u didn't care why are u writting about it. It has to hurt a little bit. But then again u have somebody that sounds great so forget the one that is a low down dog and focuss on the one that treats u good. Hell maybe i should have a back up plan lol
2006-06-16 15:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are cheating too. so I can cast you in that lot as well. Men cheat because they can. Let me clue you into a little secret. all men are skumbags. Yea sure you might find some who 'appear' not to be skumbags, but they are the few who have that part of their brain in control, and they try every day not to be skumbags.. any given day if they quit trying not to be skumbags then they will return to their normal state
2006-06-16 15:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by jason_732000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do MEN cheat? Why did YOU cheat?
Dont give it a 2nd thought. Sounds like you were a perfect couple!
2006-06-16 15:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. Maybe he found out you were cheating!!! Also the guy you are cheating with is a dog.
2006-06-16 15:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by helpv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just only your situation.
I think not all men are cruel.
They just want to discover special and strange thing that they 've never known before. (another women)
If u could be like that i think there is no reason for him to cheat on you.
But
Existence of Faithful love is not true.
2006-06-16 15:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by nguyen Lam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat because they are dogs, and not real men. U need to find u a real man, and when u do, tell me where u found him, cuz I haven't found one yet.
2006-06-16 15:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by GaPeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋