What do you girls like in guys? How would you like to be approached ? What is a good way to say hi to someone you think is hot if they don't even know you? Am I a loser for asking these things?...sigh...ok all better now, sorry about all that!
2006-06-16 14:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by young_yoda13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to http://www.askmen.com and click on the dating link on the left side. Read EVERY article and you'll soon realize all of what you've been missing. Everything you've ever wanted to know about women is on that site. I'll give you a few tips to get you started.
When talking with a new woman I always start off with, "Hi, how are you doing tonight?" Comment on an interesting piece of clothing they're wearing, their purse, anything. Just ask open ended questions that'll keep them engaged in a conversation. Here's a VERY important tip. When you're checking a woman out and she looks into your eyes DON'T look away. This shows her that you're not afraid to reveal that you're checking her out. Immediately after she breaks eye contact with you, walk over and start up a conversation like I just mentioned. Ask her what she's drinking and things like that. Never compliment her on her looks or buy her a drink. When you buy her a drink you tell her through actions that you're a wussy who's out to serve her. A hot lady can get a drink from any guy and this is usually a test to see if you're really a man, and not some desperate loser.
Now, to the more advanced guys reading this I'll tell you about what neg hits are. A neg hit is a comment made at an incredibly attractive woman to show her that you're not intimidated by her looks. For instance, a good example is "Those are some nice nails, are they real?" A woman who's a 9 or a 10 on the attraction scale should be given about 3 neg hits during normal conversation. Do NOT be afraid to make fun of her in a funny way. NEVER wuss out and give away your power/dignity to a woman. Hotties spend hours and hours getting ready and crave attention. Don't give it to them and watch how much they chase you.
Women don't base a lot of their attraction on what a guy looks like. If a guy knows how to dress well, is confident in his body langauage, actions, and words, knows how to hold an interesting conversation while keeping her laughing, he'll be golden. When a woman tells you what she's looking for in a guy analyze it a bit. For instance, you notice that women say that they like to date older men. This is not because they appreciate age, but they appreciate maturity. Also, they want tall men because it makes them feel protected, not because they find the tall man attractive. Read between the lines. In general, the less you try the more success you will have. The biggest difference with women is indifference. Pique their curiosity by taking them out to coffee for a first date, rather than blowing your paycheck. Use what I just told you and you'll notice HUGE results.
2006-06-16 15:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, when u get a good answer, plz e-mail it to me, i have the same problem, and i've tried asking my friends (the ones that r girls) and they can't give any good advice. If you'll do this for me then your the coolest dude ever.
2006-06-16 21:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different i like tall but not too tall about 5 7-5 11 but they have to have muscles but not body builder muscles b/c thats sick but nice muscles and he has to have a manly face i hate queer looking guys it makes me want to buy them a dress and cut there d*** off! lol but if you want to talk to a girl tell them they look "nice" or "Pretty" then start talking to her her like ask her how her day was and simple stuff aint nobody perfect!
2006-06-16 21:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_kisses475 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll eventually get past this. Practice talking to girls that you don't have a dating interest in.
2006-06-16 21:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋