disciplinarys
2006-06-16 14:38:29 · 13 answers · asked by bvcarter2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ive tryed almost all of those and they dont care about the consequences they r 7 and 6
2006-06-16 14:47:53 · update #1
thank you all4 all your help its hard being a father thats 25 and has a7 6 2 and 5 month old thanks brandon
2006-06-16 14:50:58 · update #2
ive even tryed having the mp's talk to oldest becuase he a fighter.and that doesnt work.but we try limiting what he watches on tv,what he does at the playground in the backyard he sneaks out when were not lookin and goes out there
2006-06-16 15:04:07 · update #3
thank you all wish me luck lol
2006-06-16 15:09:18 · update #4
it is hard to answer when we don't know the age of the kids
2006-06-16 14:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shock factor works like a charm. If you are a parent that gives four warnings before following through...then it's time to act on the first offense! (especially if it's a repeat offense) Make the punishment conducive to the "wrong choices" they have made. For instance if the toys were not picked up in the living room, bag them up and keep them for a week or two then make them dust and vacuum. (They won't every have to pick them up if they don't have them to leave out.) If they don't pick up their clothes in the bathroom, make them clean the WHOLE bathroom. If they are mean to each other, make them do something specifically nice for the other for a whole day. Follow up with rewards for good behavior and try not to stay too long in the negative. Teach them the consequences of their actions and why they should not act that way. If they don't understand then mimic their behavior so they get a better understanding of how foolish they are being....LOL....it really works! Best of luck to you.
2006-06-16 15:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Model good listening skills.
square up with the person talking so that they are facing you
use eye contact
respond or repeat what is said
If you mean with discipline ask four questions
What are you doing
what are you supposed to be doing
is that what you are doing
what are you going to do about it
what will happen if you do this again............then follow through with a consequence
2006-06-16 14:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This method is for lazy or hardheaded children.try to understand them. what is the best way to talk to them. Try several ways of asking them or telling them to do something. Don't scream or holler when you are trying to understand them. Ask nicely and see if that works. Some children only wants love and understanding when they are asked to do something. if that doesn't work ask firmly, but don't show any type of angry.
This is for bad or mislead children Find the root for the way they act. If they talk back seat them down and let them know that they can talk to you in a manageable way about anything show them you care about their feelings. If they hang out in the streets show what the streets lead to and let them know that you only love and care for them.
2006-06-16 14:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by bluemoneybanks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find one thing useful is to find the middle ground. Even though what you kids are trying to do is totally different from what you wanted, there can still be middle ground that you can find. For instance, if you kids want to do drugs, which is totally opposite of what you want s/her to do, you can still find, maybe s/he just want to do something out of boredom, just not satisfied with the routine, etc. Then you can find some replacement of that thing s/he wanted to do, which is positive, sports, music of some kind that s/he will like . . .
2006-06-16 14:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Claim The Earth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
disaplinarys hmmmm.......ok i am a kid so heres the best advice your gone here
1.)tell them your not going to let them see their friends or bf/gf and amke it on an important night for them to hang out.
2.)take away their tv, games, computer, sports or whatever their fav things to do is dont let them do it.
it really depends on what your telling or asking them. Give more info and i'll tell some more answers sorry
2006-06-16 14:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_kisses475 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put them in time out, and if its a problem with them not picking things up, take it and hide for like 2 days and say, i guess you lost, maybe you should put it away next time. "but give it back after they think about it"
2006-06-16 14:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down, and DO NOT let anything slide. Do Not let temper tantrums sway you. YOU MUST BE THE MAN!! or the WOMAN!!! Once they respect that, than you can relax a little.
2006-06-16 14:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by teachingazteca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whisper. They tune out normal talking and yelling, but as soon as they think something is secret, they suddenly re-gain their hearing.
2006-06-16 14:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ilene W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gain their respect by being honest with them and by respecting them. Also, be fair. Listen to them and realize that they are people too. Just people who don't have all their rights yet.
2006-06-16 14:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them boundaries, consequesnces for not staying within those boundaries and STICK TO IT! (I'm assuming that you're referring to younger kids or teens.)
2006-06-16 14:43:21 · answer #11 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋