I have this weird boyfriend. He yells at me a lot. but doesn't treat me with a lot of respect. He'll go a while with being good, but after that, we get into fights. I love him to death, and he loves me a lot too, but how do I sort this out?
2006-06-16 14:10:02 · 10 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am telling you right now the boy has anger issues and will probably end up abusive, you better not jump into any thing fast with a person like this. and i am not telling you to dump him either. but you had better have some serious communication between you, and maybe talk to some one . do you know what kind of a family he comes from if they were just screamers or if they were totally physically abusive, you better find out about his up bringing and then you will know what to expect later...
2006-06-16 14:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he yells at you and disrespects you then he probably doesn't love you like you might think. What you guys should do is talk to about why you guys fight and yell. That is not a healthy relationship to be if you guys are going to be fighting and yelling. Trust me when I say that it will get worse also
2006-06-16 21:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have respect for yourself. If you do, you will know how you do and do not want to be treated. Sometimes, love is not enough.
2006-06-16 21:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in an abusive relationship for 13 years. And it won't get better. Right now he is trying to control you with his words. When eventually his words don't have any affect on you, he will become physical. Get out now PLEASE before something bad happens....and it will.
2006-06-16 21:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first how long have u and him being dating ? but every couple is going to have problems but i have being married to my husband for almost 9 yrs and we still have liitle fights over stupid something but two dys we are ok it is just love
2006-06-16 21:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might love him... but it's not right that he yells at you. I'd end it before it gets worse. you deserve better.
2006-06-16 21:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow any one to ever treat you poorly.
ever.
He's just not the one.
2006-06-16 21:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Winter_Decay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't- - - you are in an abusive relationship and it won't get any better- - - it will get worse. Get out now!!!
2006-06-16 21:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take his **** and telll him straight up and if he hits you and is alot stronger than you you have to leave him until he knows not to hit you i have seen this so many times w/ my mom it aint even funny
2006-06-16 21:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_kisses475 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and when he starts to fight walk away let him cool down then talk about it
2006-06-16 22:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋