For girls: Why do you give it all up for some jerk?

Question

I really don't understand why you are so quick to fall for some jerk. I know it's love your searching for, but why do you choose sex over purity? Don't you wanna save it all for the "one"?

Answer 1

I agree with you ,sex means nothing anymore ,so hard for me to understand.

Answer 2

Ok, wait a minute there's NO sense in approaching this the way you are. Not, all women, young girls what ever you choose to classify them are go out and just have sex with anyone. Some do feel they are in love, others just feel pressured to go with the crowd. Peer pressure and pressure from a guy is the two main reasons for sex before marriage. Another one would be the famous "I love him, he told me he loved me and would never leave me" I'm NOT saying some guys don't mean this. If it is consensual upon both parties and the connection of love and commitment is there then who's to stop it. You can only hand out condoms and give so many sex talks to your kids and friends about abstinence. We all know sex before marriage is wrong there' s NO need in voicing this, but it's even worse when you have someone out to criticize women. What about men, who pressure women what about the women who pressure men?? Purity isn't overated by any means, one should save their self for marriage, but no condoms, talks or anything else is going to prevent this from happening. You can only pray for the strength to with stand from tempatation and for your friends to do the same.

Answer 3

well in this sorta f*cked up world, we see sex everywhere..and the way things are at now, its like sex is nothing. now more than ever, teenagers and even preteens seem to have sex - they want to be cool..they want to be accepted.. or they're just pressured into it. truth is, you really won't enjoy sex til you're done growing (even when you're 17-18, you're still growing!!) most guys do, but for girls, its hard to reach climaxes at such a young age..

and for the question about why girls choose jerks..
well- basically i can tell you that its because of their insecurities..girls find guys as a "goal" to this competition between girls (YOU ALL KNOW HOW WE GIRLS ARE!! we go crazy competing with each other!!!) and once we get what we want, we dont want it because theres no competition anymore...

and girls find that those guys that are harder to reach (jerks, dumbasses, the ones who are confident enough to treat you badly) are the ones we NEED to compete over.. every girl wants a confident guy.. but what you want is someone who is confident and someone who can treat you like the princess youu are.

Answer 4

I saved it till I was 13 to my teacher he went to jail and I never dated again. Until now at 18 . I never let guys in my pants till I know their no jerks.

Answer 5

girl life it to short to be saving anything as for as for the jerk he only becomes a jerk after we give him what he wants...

Answer 6

If your taking about giving up virginity for a jerk... your right about that... it's easy to give in, but you really show who you are if you say no.

Answer 7

I know, but sometimes you think you cant find that "one". Thats why we have a word called DIVORCE. And so when you THINK you cant find that "one" then you just go for the jerk

Answer 8

Women today don't seem to want marriage any more than men. They would rather have a collection of casual partners than spend their life with someone who appreciates them. I have done that in my life and have tried hard to find a decent man who wants a future and stuff but it seems every guy wants to hit on you on date one.

Answer 9

Simple. Love is blind. They have that saying in more then one language, more then one culture for a reason.
We/They probably did not realize he was a jerk, and we/they thought that we/they loved him and vise verse.

Answer 10

hahaha. You're stereotyping. That's something I try very hard not to do. Not each and every one of us is a wh0re. I am a virgin and I plan to stay that way et post-maritale.