im seriously doubting if my b.f. and i really have a healthy relationship - but 4 d 2nd time. he cusses so much/hes a diff religion then i am & my parents despise both. hes also into talkin bout how sexy each of us look & both my parents & me dont really enjoy tht so much. im not askin 4 any smart answers, i honestly need 2 kno wat 2 do...shuld i listen 2 my parents unspoken wish 4 me 2 dump him /or/ shuld i give him another chance 2 improve...he & i really have a thing 4 eachother besides tht thow. plz help!
2006-06-16 13:38:30 · 10 answers · asked by Brecka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know what his bothering you about the way he acts. Seems to me that you have more or less made up your mind about this dude, it's not like he has changed from when you have had your first doubts about it has he? You parents want what is best for you, and I don't blame them. Talk to him and let him know the story, if he doesn't have enough respect for you to change some of his ways...3 times..you're out...game over..
2006-06-16 13:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Dump his ***.
Long answer:
First learn how to write proper English, then confront him about his behaviour an tell him it has to change. He will either blow you off and not take you seriously (in which case, dump his ***), or he'lll say, "Oh yea baby I'm gonna change, you'll see." But the change probably won't last for more than three months. (See previous post -- people don't change.) At which point, you'll just have to dump his *** anyway.
2006-06-16 13:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by mcskwayrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him 2 stop cussing and stuff that u don't like and if he dont improve then u really shd dump him and look 4 someone new
2006-06-16 13:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by i luv guys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha. One of the biggest relationship myths:
The person is going to change.
If you don't like things how they are then leave or you will both just go on being miserble.
2006-06-16 13:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I would have a nice long talk...give it a week..if he doesn't change then sorry hunn he never will..then u hafta dump him!! Good Luck Sweetheart <3*
2006-06-16 13:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to carry someone that would not opt to be held. only talk consisting of her about it actual and gently. do not attempt to make her experience undesirable for the way she feels yet do not attempt to pull out the courting both. which will only harm both one in each of you worse.
2016-10-31 00:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents because they love you and only want what is best for you
2006-06-16 13:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Koalas,if the way that he talk it bother you, that is a clue that you won't go any far,listen to your parents, they know that you won't be happy with this guy.
2006-06-16 13:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by flowermieses@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is alot of guys out there that would fit you and your parents better.
2006-06-16 13:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont like what hes doing
2006-06-16 13:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋