We started dating Feb. 16 this year. We were having a great relationship, and everything was going well. After the first week we started kissing, then we got more personal, it was all mutual. Then about the 2 month, we had sex. Everything was going great still, we had no problems,he always told me even when we first started dating, after knowing each other for over a year that he has always wanted 2b w/ me,and that he never wants 2 break up with me.He said the relationship was perfect,he said we should get engaged.I had sex w/ him b4 going on vacation come back and he says we should break up.He said with all that he has going on in his life right now, the relationship is hard 2 manage.He has a full time job during summers, and flight lessons every tuesday, and has alot of trouble @ home. He says he still wants 2b great friends.He told me people change. Is he being honest? He wants me 2 hangout w/ him tomorrow. Should I? How should I act? Is it ok 2 call him now 2 talk?does he love me?
2006-06-16 13:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hang out with him tomorow and tell him how you feel but if he just wants to befriends you gotta respect that huni its better to be friends than nothing
2006-06-16 13:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but he sounds like he's all about sex. Thats the only way I can make since of why he wants you to hang out with him tomorrow. Women who have been dumped and are hurting and confused are prime target for guys. They know that if they spend a little time with you in your most saddest moment that you might do anything cause you think it will lead to you getting him back. Don't do that. Please don't do that. Stay strong and have respect for yourself. You're much too good for him.
2006-06-16 13:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being honest. I'd say you can call him but only as a supportive friend, so if you can't do that - don't call. Sorry, honey but it sounds like he's going through a lot and he isn't sure where he stands - love you vs. love you not. Just give him some time and some space.
2006-06-16 13:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, hellooooooo...he broke up with you, there's your answer...and if that isn't clear enough then here...NO, he doesn't love you because if he did love you then you wouldn't have to question it because you would KNOW it! Now, move on with your own life and look out for yourself. He's doing exactly what he wants to do. The longer you allow him to play with your emotions the longer he will. While your wasting your time questioning his actions, guys that would truly be interested you are probably passing you by.
2006-06-16 13:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by boxerpitk9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the real world its time to stop read pete pan book and move on there a old say he want his cake and he want to eat it to mean he has some else and he want you too the problem is where is your self respect or pride if youre going to have sex please have safe sex by the way did you know this how baby r born you have a life time ahead of you grow up frist
2006-06-16 13:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all hun calm down. its going to b ok. if you want to hang out with him ,hang out. but dont get mushy on him. and if it ends up hurting you to just be friends take some time away. im not going to answer all of these questions im going to say it sounds like your hurt now. dont put yourself into a position to make it hurt more later. trust me hun.
2006-06-16 13:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by kidmccloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang with him 2morrow and slap his face!! Did you realize that he wants you just for sex!!! If i were you, i will never want to see him anymore!!! But you also is a stupid girl bcoz you trust him 100%!!
2006-06-16 15:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋