ALWAYS comments on your body...like when hes talking about your boobs..."it would be nicer if these got a little bigger" or "it wouldn be way nicer if your *** got bigger" or "you should work out, you'd be hotter yet"....some of that stuff i cant' even change!!! whats wrong with him? what would you say or do?
2006-06-16 13:24:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell him that hes pissing me off and upsetting me by saying those things and talk to him about it. see if he will agree to stop it. then if he keeps on, i would just dump him and move on. there are PLENTY of guys who will make you feel special... you dont need one who tells you that you need to change just to suit him.
2006-06-16 13:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Whats wrong with him? God! Girls are almost always self-conscious about their bodies anyway... without Mr. Perfect chiming in with his two cents. You need to drop that loser and let him go on an endless search for a modelesque "trophy wife" while you go find a nice guy who likes you for YOU and thats it.
2006-06-16 20:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by tracy_0229 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like it or lump it buddy!!!!!!!! maybe you should make some of the same comments about his body and see if he likes it. does he like the way you look or not, or does he want you to be hotter because he can show you off to his friends and make them jealous, thinking he has got it made its totally up to you if you want to treated that way, but i wouldnt, and i dont think any man is worth doubting yourself over. and thats my opinion
2006-06-16 20:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's a jerk and if he doesn't like you the way you are why is he your boyfriend. Then if he gets mad and breaks up with you you'll know he's a jerk. But then again maybe he doesn't realize it bothers you. The keyword is TALK. Good luck.
2006-06-16 20:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by k m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go find the woman is looking for instead of trying to change who you are. If he can't accept you just as you are you are wasting your time. Sounds like a jerk to me!
2006-06-16 20:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him...he's got issues. Tell him to get better abs, and bigger arm, and be more muscular. And if he says he is all that stuff tell him you are too.
2006-06-16 20:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by I Have A Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating a guy he should like/love you because of the way you already are. NEVER EVER change yourself just because some guy wants you to.
2006-06-16 21:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! he should accept you for the way you are. And, even if you could change it, you shouldn't, not for him anyways. I would give him some schooling on this and then dump his a**.
2006-06-16 20:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by yng1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up and stop being immature and if he cant show respect why are you talking to him move on give your self time and the world is your good luck the joker
2006-06-16 20:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who really like you like all of you just as you are. He is trying to make you into something else. Follow your heart on this one.
2006-06-16 20:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by TinyToon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋