What would you do if you find out that your girlfriend who you fell in love with in the first place because of her innocent looks is no longer a virgin (and is a highmileage girl)? It's like I bought a brand new car but they gave me a used car with high mileage. Should i break up with her? I used to think of her with high regards, now, I'm not sure anymore.
2006-06-16 13:17:04 · 20 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IN MY OPINION YOU SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HER...SHE DECEIVED YOU !!!
ALSO...YOU CANT MAKE A HOE A HOUSEWIFE !!!
2006-06-16 13:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ NIKKI .♥ 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are having trouble deciding what you want. Does it really matter if the mileage is there when you get her or after she is done with you. Mileage is mileage and there is no more dedication or committment that comes with low mileage and the warranty is the sam. As is, no refunds. All models included no exceptions. Could be good practice if she is high mileage though, think about it before you throw it away.
2006-06-16 20:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. She should be more than a safe haven for your worm. Women give us more than their bodies. The value of a relationship is the ability to entertain each other and to travel down the path to fulfillment together. Working together provides us with both the satisfaction of doing something and having something done us us. Do you come to her with a clean record?? Well a little mileage makes the car run smoother. Maybe she learned something you can use. Enjoy having someone to share things with and forget the purity thing.
2006-06-16 20:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, no one falls in love, true love, because of someone's looks. What her sexual past is should not matter, so long as she has not contracted any STD's. Your regard for her should be placed on all of her virtues. By the way, women are not like "cars" that you "buy."
However, if it is her lies that bother you, then that may be grounds for a break up. But, to be honest, it sounds like you just want a virgin to "break in like a car" for yourself. And that, my friend, is shallow and you should reconsider how you treat and look at women.
2006-06-16 20:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by yng1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up unless you think you can get over it ......get out now so you don't resent her forever.....and if she's "high mileage" then she can find someone else anyway ....you're just a guy ....there are plenty .....and you can spend your time looking for you innocent virgin.....oh yeah ....by the way .....good luck with that one .....
2006-06-16 20:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by libyis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all come with baggage, some are packed light some are OVER LOADED!! but your not with the person based on what has been in the suitcase.. Your with them for the values and the simple things that keeps your heart warm and smiling... we all have done things that we can't take back, life is too short to worry about something you can't change, but you can enjoy the days smiling and be happy with the one you love.
2006-06-16 20:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly HOW high is her mileage? Are you saying you thought she was a virgin, but now you found out she's been around? Wow. I suppose that only YOU can really answer that one. Is your love for her enough to overcome this? Do you love her for her.... or for her virtue?
2006-06-16 20:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by tracy_0229 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fell in love with her due to her looks, not her sexual experience. If you think she will cheat on you then dump her, but if you feel that she is more experienced than you and your upset, here is my advice. get over it. let her teach you how to make her feel good. oh by the way, im a guy, and dont use car metaphors for women. it just sounds bad.
2006-06-16 20:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should not matter how many men she slept with. how would you feel if a woman dumps you because of how many woman you slept with. if you really love her or have strong feelings for her that part should not matter as long as she treats you with respect and she not out there DOING someone else behind your back. they you are thinking is so immature. plus it is hard these days to find a woman that is still a virgin. am not saying that there are not one female out there that is a virgin. it's just hard to find one.
2006-06-16 20:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she rack up all those miles since you've been with her, or did you just make a wrong assumption based on her looks ( ! ) before you got with her? I'd say if you like her, and if she's still healthy, and if she'll be just yours from now on, why not stick with her? Who knows, she may teach you some nice tricks!
2006-06-16 20:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw keep her, just have her tested, but then again, did she tell you that she was a virgin? or did you assume?? Some cars handle high mileage really well!!
2006-06-16 20:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by chineydups 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋