Why does it still hurt to have sex?

Question

I lost my virginity about 2-3 months ago and it still hurts to have sex.IT hurts the same as it did when I lost my virginity.I don't know why.So, please help me

Answer 1

It all depends on how often and how many times you've had sex since you lost your virginity. your vagina probably hasnt stretched enough yet. also make sure its moist down there as that helps A LOT. take it easy at the start and go slow. it'll get better, i promise.

Answer 2

Well it could be several reason on why it still hurts, if your not sure you even want to have sex at the time, your doing the do your body will tighten and tension up every time,. Foreplay will only get you wet and feeling good but, you have to allow your muscles to relax and enjoy the experience, you can't rush sex when your not use to being penetrated, it will take some time based on ur swallow from the new experience, plus you might want to be checked out just in case you have any tears or infections

Answer 3

Every body has different geometry. If you are with the same partner, try different positions where penetration is much less, and maybe it will be less painful. There is a possibility that his penis is much longer than your vaginal canal and he is bumping into your cervix. This is painful when it happens to me, too. I just have to shift positions.

Make sure you give oral a try...it's a great way for your man to help you reach the big "o", and most likely it is pain free!!

You might also want to check with your gyne to make sure there isn't anything wrong, you could have a cyst that is in the way... or it could be a sign or something else. It's best if you check to be sure!!

Answer 4

Foreplay is a huge part of having comfortable sex - are you guys just rushing through it?? Its important for you to be wet enough so it doesnt hurt - if you find you can seem to get lubed up enough, buy some lubricant and use that. Also, ensure that hes not being too rough. Hope this helps!!

Answer 5

I would realy try using lubricant. Also, alot of the times, it's just the boyfriend's fault... could be that he just has no idea what he is doing. Try being ontop for a change, and do what feels good and natural to you. This is as much advice as i can give you withought much further information. Hope i helped.

Matt.

Answer 6

www.talksexwithsue.com

Check the website out.

Tell the dude to stop being so rough, and *go slow*. You've got to tell guys what you need, or else it will still hurt.

Also, if you're nervous, if you're not sure if the guy is sincere, if you're not in the mood, you'll tighten up.

Answer 7

Honestly, your guy might be "gifted" size-wise. Tell him to slow down and also check to see if you are lubricated enough when he starts. If you aren't that aroused or have no time to get aroused, the friction might cause you some pain. It should've stopped hurting a while ago.

Answer 8

You are not ready it takes true feeling for most people some day it will be ok. The mind and body takes care of it. Don't do if not sure you will know. Don't go for peer pressure.

Answer 9

why would you ask this here ask a doctor not abunch of fools on the web.

Give it time to heal. as in no sex for a while. when you do this for the first time you actually tear, so it needs to heal, intern talk to your doctor... or got to the clinic. it will take a while to heal. I am not a doctor. you need a gynocologist, in your case a woman they are better in this field of medicine

Answer 10

There are so many possibilities and it may be medical so I would go and speak to a female doctor about it. Try to avoid sex until you know what is going on. Stay safe.