I Need Help On Abortion...???

Question

Ok...me and my gf had sex...and IDk I might of got in her a little and IDK... she dosnt have all the mojor sympoms of pregnancy...but she has some...she only feels a little sick and stuff...it happend a few weeks ago...and when ever we go to the clinic its always closed...please help...im not compleatly ready to be a pop yet...Please Tell ME What To Don In case We Need To Get An Abortion...I Really Dont Want To But Ive Learnd To Use Pertection And I Kno To Use It Now...So Should We Get It Er Not???

Answer 1

If you decide that you do not want to have a baby, please hear me out. There are a lot of people like my wife and I who are unable to have a baby. We depend on people who do not want a baby, but have gotten pregnant. There is a large "market" for babies out there and people like me will pay medical costs, etc. to adopt your baby. We don't care about race or gender. Please talk to someone about adoption. You may find someone you know in a place like I am in, so you will be able to keep in touch with your child, but let someone else raise them. If you don't know anyone who is interested, e-mail me.

Answer 2

if she is pregnant and you do want an abortion then find a well known doctor. be prepared for the expensise because unless you tell your parents, which im thinking your dont, then insurance wont cover it. the only symptoms when you are first pregnant is morning sickness and missed period. there really isnt anything else and thats why some people dont find out till theyre 3 months along. a test is the best way
and for all those people who say its murder, its not, the baby cant live on its own without lungs. and it does not develop lungs untill month 7. putting it up for adoption is another way to go but you still have to pay for new clothes and hospital bills plus going threw the pain of pregnancy. its really her choice though. good luck

Answer 3

If she is pregnant the only options are either to have the baby or get an abortion. If you and your girlfriend are young I'd advise you to not get an abortion because your gf and you will be crushed by killing an unborn baby and that memory will stay with you forever, I gurantee it. You could also have the baby and then put the baby up for adoption if you can't support it or you can't care for it well enough. Just make sure, in the future, that if you don't want a child then you better use protection and the day-after pill to stop your gf from getting pregnant.

Answer 4

For one take a home test first. They can be taken up to 5 days before her usually expected period, and they cost anywhere from $8 to $15. Don't take the test to early or you may end up with a false negative. I know its hard to wait when you want to know. After taking a home test, if it is poss, go to see a doctor to confirm. You'll have to that whether you want to keep the baby or not. ( an abortion clinic will want proof that she is pregnant) If she is pregnant talk to each other and definitely both of your parents. I also know that that is scary, but you where old enough to have sex so now be old enough to take responsibility. An abortion will cost you anywhere from $350. to $450. Please be sure that is what you want to do. It may be hard to live with. Everybody is different in what they can handle emotionally. Also don't tell anyone she doesn't want you to. Getting rid of a child is hard enough without complete strangers, or friends for that matter, calling you a murderer. It is private for you and her. If she is not pregnant get her on birth control, use condoms, and be thankful. Its alot cheaper than getting rid of or raising a baby. Good Luck

Answer 5

Go to a dollar store and get a test there, they are just as accurate and they are cheap. then if she is pregnant try to think of some other options. There are people in this world who can not have children and would be very good parents who might want your baby. Another things is yes I know you have learned your lessen now but if you are not ready to be a daddy then you shouldn't be having sex. Abortion is murder anyway you look at it! Protection is not 100% accurate any way!!!

Answer 6

don't get an abortion it is a child you are letting down at the door of life that will never feel to live because they only have one chance to get in. Take time see if she is really pregnant yet. Talk to your parents. no one can make a decision for u and your girlfriend. you have to talk it over and give it thought.

Answer 7

If you are ale to care for the child then go for it. If not dont bring a child in the world and not be able to love and feed and care and nurture it. That wouldnt be fair for the child in the long run. It would lead to resentment and the child growin up hatein his parents

Answer 8

first find out if she really is pregnant. if she isn't, make sure that you never have this issue again by taking all the necessary precautions. if she is, than you need someone to talk to, to spill it all out. they can help, give support and suggestions. try not to chose abortion, it isn't right, in my opinion, if you go during open hours, I'm sure a clinic can help you and your gf emotionally and financially, they will give you all your options to.

Answer 9

DONT get an abortion!! Even if you are not ready to be a dad yet, do NOT get it, put the baby up for adoption instead...it shows that you love it

Answer 10

soundsl ike you have ebonics and have already had your brain aborted. people like you should not be allowed to have sex. you are an idiot and you will get whats comin. get a couple of jobs and consider the next 18 years of your life gone. good luck. enjoy!