do you ever get this feeling this guy (or a girl) likes you but everyone says that it's not true. I just got the feeling. He is always talking to me and stuff so i think i like him but his friends say he doesn't. I thought he was just telling his friends to say this to hide his feelings but now i think it's ture that he doesn't like me. My friends say that he does, so now i'm confused. Which side should i beleive and what should i do?
2006-06-16 10:47:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my problem is similar to yours i liked this guy at my church darren and i didnt know if he liked me everyone said he did but i didnt think he acted like it so i just left him alone and now i regret it so if u like him u better make your move!!! Good luck
2006-06-16 10:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends say alot of crap! And Friends dont always have the inside story, look at it this way why would someone tell the person they like's friends because they no that there going to tell the person they like what they said. So they might have asked and they might have gotten that answer but that doesnt mean thats the right answer! And I do get this feeling! Your friends may say one thing, and he might say another so what ever side you take its always going to be a 50/50 chance your gonna be right!
2006-06-16 17:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the power of FLIRT...ask your best girlfriend to go with you and organize some kind of double date. In this way you save face and you'll see if he likes you likes you..or if are just rumors.
Some guys are shy..but with the right motivation, things can change. Anyway at this point you guys are just friends and you are going out as friends no harm done...
If he is not into you...don't worry, there will be a lot of opportunities, I'm sure you are very cute!...
good luck
2006-06-16 17:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by texraider27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the exact same situation right now. all i can tell you is to find out for yourself. everplayed the game telephone? well, you will only know exactly what he's thinking if you talk directly to him.
i've actually had a girls friend tell me taht she didnt like me, only to find out later on she was just saying that because SHE liked me too and didnt want me dating the first girl.
2006-06-16 17:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Evan B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He say, she say foolishness again, if you want to find out something about someone, you go to that person and not to your friends or his friends cause they will tell you a bunch of crap and get you confused. You ask him if he likes you and go from there.
2006-06-16 17:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, ask him if he could see you two together. If he says no, leave him alone and move on. If he says yes or maybe, say oh, just wondering and smile. Do not ask him out! If he likes you he will ask you. He may be scared to ask but doing this will signal to him that it is time to ask.
2006-06-16 17:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's paying attention to you, most likely that means he likes you.
You sound pretty young but at any age, the more attention someone pays to you, the greater the chances are that they have feelings for you in some way.
2006-06-16 17:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany_twisted66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go ask him if he does dont believe anyone cuz his friends can say he does b/c they kno u like him but they dont want him to be in a relationship b/c thats gonna ruin their guy time and ur friends could be sayin he does b/c they kno that u like him and they dont want to see u hurt if he dosnt so the best thing to do is go ask him urself
2006-06-16 17:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by krystal w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds confusing, but to get the straight up truth, just ask him how he feels about you, so you dont have to hear it from someone else.
2006-06-16 17:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him and find out the truth if you dont you will be living in a state of confusion for quite a while
2006-06-16 17:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by bbchk013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋