Ok, so ive went out, been myself, woo'd them a little. So now i have their number, I know its time critical that i call them asap. So, ladies, or whoever, whats the time windows i should meet and try to shoot for - for asking for dates, just trying to talk, 2nd dates, whatever. For example, i got a number from a girl, and she said she would be busy for the next few days, but i should call her anyways. What the hell does this mean? any hidden message here? Help me out team!
2006-06-16 10:35:40 · 29 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means she may actually be busy or she is just not into you. You should wait a couple (3 to 4) days, call her and say : hey what's up, I was just calling to see how things were going. See what kind of vibe you get from her. If she is interested she will probably take sometime out to talk to you. If she is not she will say she is still busy.
2006-06-16 10:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by bella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay depending on how crazy of a schedule she keeps,she could be telling the truth (about being really busy)its a good sign she gave u a heads up.i'd say she likes u,if she's that busy and u want to date her you should probably be giving her a call to ask her out..exspecially if she has a tight schedule....just don't keep calling her a whole lot if u don't get a hold of her or she might think your going to bug her all the time(you'll come across as needy)usually after getting a number if a guy doesn't try to call within a couple days i would think he's not interested....so if your interested give her a call and ask her out...with a girl u like u never wait until the last minute to ask her out....ask her out earlier in the week for the weekend....the longer u wait(like if u wait until that night or something it says she's not really important,also could be considered as oh i didn't have a date and couldn't find anyone else so i'll call her..or bootie call)
2006-06-16 10:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on getting the number! As far as time windows, I personally don't believe in all that crap, but I'm pretty straight forward.
I'm assuming today is the day after you got the number....I would call in the afternoon, that way you don't call while she's at work or anything. Find out when she would be available to do something (movie, dinner, walk, talk... whatever) and you have a date.
If she doesn't answer, leave a message like:
Hey, this is *name* just seeing if you wanted to hang out again. Give me a call back at *999-9999*. Bye.
Improvise to make it sound like you. Simple.
One other thing, don't call 20 minutes after she gave you her number....it looks desperate. AND if she doesn't call back right away, don't stress. Give her some time. If a few days go by, you can try calling again, but don't call frequently....that tends to turn people away.
Good luck!
2006-06-16 10:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Toybear_mav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all breath..lol
Next, give it the weekend. And call her Monday, around 3. 3 is a good time because everyone is looking forward to going home after work. Don't call her this weekend, it's FATHERS day! Just wait, and try not to stress to much!
Next question, where to go on a date? LAMO
Keep us up to date & Good Luck
2006-06-16 10:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by lvn_jb06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you should call her. She might be too busy to go on a date but she will not be too busy to talk on the phone and make plans at a later date. I always think that you should get to know a person a bit before you start spending a lot of money on dates. A lot of men get disappointment when they spend that time and money on you and things don't work out. So call her and talk to her get to know her likes and dislikes that way you can keep on wooing her.
2006-06-16 10:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's into you dude. She's testing you to see if you're man enough to call her and "interrupt" her busy schedule. Call he immediately, tell her how much of a great time you had with her and ask her for a repeat performance. Don't make it a formal date, just a get together so you can talk face to face. Don't be too eager, just let her know that you like her company.
2006-06-16 10:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by TonOBricks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude, if she told you she's going to be busy but you can call her anywayz, it means she's willing to make time for you, this is a good thing. In general if you really want the girl make sure you call within 48 hours. If you get a girl's cell number, it will usually make her laugh and think ur clever if you walk out like ur leaving, then as soon as u get out, call her and ask if she'd like to see you again ;-) but in general ya, 2 days or they think you werent interested and now ur just lookin for some @$$
2006-06-16 10:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a few days, then call her and ask her out. Let her decide when the next time she's available, and go for it! Hidden messages aside, she gave your her number.
2006-06-16 10:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by TL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure as hell don't call asap, you look too desperate, wait a couple days then call, it will give her time to clear her schedule.ask for the date and get off the phone, don't be the gurlfriend.
2006-06-16 10:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there was a hidden message there. She didn't want to seem to you like she was going to be waiting by the phone desperate. If you like her, call her. Simple.
2006-06-16 10:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋