she is my neighbor and we both got seduced for some reasons while i was teachin her how to swim and our realtionship strated..we have some wild sex on roof tops...sometimes in pool..sometimes on her sofa etc..but i dun like to have it on her bed cz her hus sleeps on tht..What should i do? im confused..i go crazy abt her and she too does..we r always playin with each other...is it bad?
2006-06-16 10:22:41 · 14 answers · asked by CraZyGuy 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The fact that you have even asked the question tells me that, at least according to your value system, you already believe it is "bad". Physical attraction is pretty much biochemical and very short-lived, basically not the kind of thing to be making potentially life-altering decisions on! And, even if this may not be potentially life-altering for YOU, I assure you that, as a married woman, even if her husband never finds out it is a life-altering thing for her because her relationship with her husband will never be the same. SHE will always know she has cheated on him and it will affect her sense of trust and security in the marriage. Not only that, if there are kids involved, their lives will be adversely affected, too. Do you honestly want to be a party to that kind of thing just because you are having a biochemically induced attraction to someone??? Take a cold shower, go hang out with single women somewhere, and ask yourself if you seriously want to be involved with someone who has already demonstrated her inability to be faithful, honest or mature about relationships.
2006-06-16 11:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Counselor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-19 21:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of single women, why mess around with someone who's married? Especially a neighbor! I throw garbage out the window of the car, but not in front of my house!
2006-06-16 10:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to me, i guess, that you are just attracted towards her body and nothing else....and I think that the woman is still ammature and dont have sense about what she is doing.....she is ruining her life and even yours (if you are really into her)....now you may feel that this is fun, but later on, it may become dangerousfor both of you so be a little aware.
2006-06-16 17:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible. I feel so bad for her poor husband. You should feel awful about this or is it that you have no conscience. Of course she should feel horrible to since she made vows and he probably loves her very much. Both of you need to stop now.
2006-06-16 11:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes Stop Now Married Woman baddddd even worse if she has kids this is just a bad situation be adult and end it clean and quick
2006-06-16 10:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now. She is married! Gather what morals you have and run away from that fling! You are hurting her family and doing yourself no good. Find a chick who can be all yours!
2006-06-16 11:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you happen to fall off the roof once or twice?
2006-06-16 10:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop now, this woman took vows and so did you if your married. for better or worse forsaking all others till death do you part ... I think you need to stop this relationship and think about if that was your wife would you want her doing the nasty with your neghibor
2006-06-16 10:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes it's bad if her husband is faithful.
2006-06-16 10:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋