the girl I like I think is really beautiful, she has a good personality, a good sense of humor...in other words, she is perfect. Following so far? Good.
I really love her. I don't know if she likes me though. Let me explain: The first time I called her she seemed surprised and very happy that I called. the next couple of times I talked with her she seemed shyer around me than normal. She does know I like her.
To the point: What are signs that she likes me? and if she does, what do I do about it? If she doesn't, what do you suggest? Help please!
2006-06-16 10:21:55 · 17 answers · asked by J. Ripley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first...i know i'm not a girl. haha, secondly...don't push things faster than they need to go, but probably she likes you too. that's why she's shy now, because she knows that you both feel the same, but maybe she's scared to take the next step. i dunno. but good luck! =D
2006-06-16 10:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by answers, answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably sound happy to talk to you if she likes you. But, she could just be having a bad day, be tired etc. If she is acting shyer, that could mean that she is nervous and does not want to do/say something that you may not like. Just be yourself-I know it is hard but she can probably sense how nervous you are. If she likes you, she'll find that cute and may even pick at you about it. Hope everything works out for you.
Oh, Mr. Wonderful is offering good advice-don't rush it.
2006-06-16 17:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can be very confusing. We find a guy that might like us and we then back off. Why? We need time to think. "Do I like him? If I do, how far does he intend this to go? If I don't, how is this going to affect our friendship? Should I continue this or break it off? He seems interested, but what happens if he doesn't like me once he gets to know me?" The list goes on and on. My advice is to ask her out on a date and let her know you're interested. Then don't call for a day or two. Give her space. It works every time.
2006-06-16 17:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Alexgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It Definitely sounds like she likes you, Sometimes we get shy around guys that we like, especially when we know they like us back. Some of the signs that she likes you are: Her not looking you in the eye, Her Laughing alot when she's around you, and last but not least...being "Shy"...I think you should ask her out...Tell her it's okay if she doesn't want to, but let her know how much you like and love her...try writing her a poem (or just copying one from somewhere, us girls don't care, we just love the fact that you're giving us one) and tell her she's beautiful. Hopefully this works for ya!
2006-06-16 17:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Watch for signs that she is interested. Smiles, eye contacts, flirting... Don't come ont too strong though. That will definately scare her away. Using that "L" word right now isn't a good idea either.
2006-06-16 17:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by MemphisGal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeming happy you called is one sign of her possibly liking you. And also, the reason she's more shy could be because she likes you, too ... there are a lot of variables, though
2006-06-16 17:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by crazy monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't find you interesting enough, she wouldn't carry anymore conversations with you. That's what I do. Lol. If I'm interested, I talk, if not, leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Got the hint?
2006-06-16 17:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she's just more shy when it comes to relationships. I know I am a totally different person when i know someone likes me. you get shy and dont want to mess it up. I'm sure that she likes you and you should just hang out more to ease the shyness.
2006-06-16 17:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ash00786 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some signs are if she's really excited to see you. Just ask her out on a date and i f she says yes, then you know she's interested in you. If not, then she's not.
2006-06-16 17:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being shy is one of the signs of liking you, but there are a lot of other signs like is she flirty around you, when your with her does she touch you a lot or does she stand close to you. if she distant from you and isn't so flirty then i think she might just want to be friends. we'll if she does end up liking you then you should ask her out and if she doesn't like you then hang out with her till she gets to know you better. that's what happened with me. i didn't like this one guy but he kept taking me bowling and coming to my house to talk to my brothers or parents as a friend of course and we went out to eat and eventually i started to like him cause i saw the sweet, sensitive side of him.
2006-06-16 17:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i have exactly the same problem with a girl i really like. i just don't know what to say or how to say it, when to say it. i need help too.
i would advise you to be careful, you only got one shot at this, make it worth remembering for both of you.
2006-06-16 17:26:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋