she is my neighbor and we both got seduced for some reasons while i was teachin her how to swim and our realtionship strated..we have some wild sex on roof tops...sometimes in pool..sometimes on her sofa etc..but i dun like to have it on her bed cz her hus sleeps on tht..What should i do? im confused..i go crazy abt her and she too does..we r always playin with each other...is it bad?
2006-06-16 10:14:03 · 22 answers · asked by CraZyGuy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay...I know where you are at...as a married woman and I had sex when I was around 15-16 years old. For a teenage boy (and I am speaking from my experience only)..sex can be very addictive. All you see and feel...is when will be the next time we are together. During this time, you only can think of the sex and do not think of the consequences. You can be excited and embarassed at the same time. You can not see "the forest for the trees" type of thing!! Now..nearly 40 years later...I know what I was doing...was wrong. It was not morally correct...and it was wrong for the woman to pursue young males as she had...she needed to work out her marital problems. SO, to answer your question...yes, it is wrong...on so many levels. But, you cannot see that...as the sex is great...the feelings are strong...but, trust someone who has been there...it is wrong and you may wind up regretting it in several ways. The embarrassment at possibly being caught...the woman could tell the husband just to get him upset...which could mean some physical pain for you. But, down the road...as you get older...it will be something you might have a tinge of regret for doing. The best situation...leave now...it will not be any easier later.
2006-06-28 03:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by thor1014 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously found a playmate in you! I'm guessing she's a good girl in general and this makes her feel like she has some freedom from what may be an unexiting marriage. The problem is, if forced to choose between you and her stable marriage, she is likely to dump you. If you really love her, the best thing may be to thank her for all the good times, encourage her to spend time with her husband, and then leave her alone. I'm guessing you might feel a little guilty if her husband finds out and throws her into the street with little more than spare change. Which, chances are, he would.
2006-06-16 17:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is bad. Nothing good can come out of this relationship. She is married. If she intended to leave her husband she would have. Continuing to see her will result in her husband finding out, which unless you plan on moving will be a dangerous thing. Use your brain not your penis and end this affair. There a most likely other women who will have sex with you (although you do sound like an ***).
2006-06-27 18:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what are your options - continue the affair and hope her husband doesn't find out, continue it and he does find out and may kick your sorry ***, or do the right thing and run far far away. Once a cheater always a cheater and this woman will do the same thing to you that she's doing to her husband because she knows she's gotten away with it once and could again. How do you know there aren't more guys she's having besides you?
2006-06-16 18:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Surferchic50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is bad. Even if you are CRAZY in love with her, you both should respect the fact that she is married, and that if that man were to find out about you two that he would be crushed. Plus, I'm not trying to create friction between you two, but if she loved you the way you love her, why doesn't she end it with her husband and be exclusively with you and only you? I know you love her very much, but aren't you tired of being the second man?
2006-06-28 13:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Brittanie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "get seduced." You choose to be in an adulterous relationship. Of course it's bad and you know it. I hope her husband catches both of you and kicks butt or worse. Stop now or you will be very sorry.
2006-06-16 17:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was really into you she wouldve left her husband by now think about it there 's no future for you with her so why go on with it.
It sounds like its just a sexual relationship ant way and thats all that matters to you and her
2006-06-28 19:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by arianasdad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is doing someone (YOU) to pass off some free time during the day ....suggest to her a better hobbie like sewing ,or pottery ...something constructive ,instead of destructive...to her relationship that is ............
2006-06-27 05:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is, is it bad?.....yes it is bad, the sex may be good, but nobody should get involved with married people unless you are the husband or wife, if you wont have sex with her on her bed, you must be feeling guilty, it is his bed, but its also his wife, think about it
2006-06-26 11:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine as long as you are prepared to have your *** kicked when her husband finds out... meanwhile, enjoy it all you can
2006-06-16 17:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋