Last night he started crying about his brother that passed 9 yrs ago. When I went to comfort him he pushed me away. He's always talking about he can handle it or he "got this". I don't feel close to him at all...sometimes I really don't even feel like I'm in a relationship. We can talk about anything but when it comes to discussing our problems in our relationship or him opening up he changes the subject or deliberately piss me off until we end up in the argument...but to hear him tell it, he'll say I'm making it up. What do you think?
2006-06-16 10:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by scrp1106 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
complete openness should already been present before a relationship should have started. Too often we rush into things for many reasons not taking enough time to get to know one another. then we get together and wonder why it doesnt work out. love isnt compromise its about love and acceptence. trust and honesty. he pushes you away means he has none of what it takes to be a good understanding loving caring mate. sorry but I say respect yourself and you can do and deserve better.
2006-06-16 10:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Run...as far as you can....why have you wasted 4 yrs on this guy? He's not going to change so either live with it, or find someone you can talk to..........
2006-06-16 10:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just men i've been with my husband for eight years and he is just now opening up with alot of things so when he do open up listen and wait for the next time
2006-06-16 14:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt opening up now, dont expect it to happen in the near future.
2006-06-16 10:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him feel more comfortable or get some help counceling or something
2006-06-16 10:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Connie's Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lush *** to me
2006-06-16 16:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by tyrrllrbrt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋