I have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me and he has done it once but nothing bad happened since.I was never the kind of girl who would stay with a guy even though he has cheated on me.I love him a lot but how do you break up with someone without feeling that you want them back because all of the good times that you have shared together.
2006-06-16 10:08:15 · 9 answers · asked by jany50002002 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no comments about why you did you stay with him after that because love is blind.I just found out that.
2006-06-16 10:09:40 · update #1
You know what, if they hurt you once then they BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!!! You won't leave until you're ready to, even if you caught with your best friend you would probably stay. Bets bet, RUN and always remember, BE SMART.... You forgave him once . WRONG!!!!You are young , you will bounce back. You lost your past, now take control of your future. Leave him and start fresh this weekend. Go out and find out who you are. If you'll take that then you must not know a lot yet of self-worth. His friends might have laughed about it and now you can too. RUN GIRL RUN!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck
DvL
2006-06-16 10:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by DvLn1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way.
You can stay in this relationship and always have that pain of the cheating in your mind because it is a part of that relationship.
You can start a new relationship with someone else and it will not be tarnished by that incident. You can find someone else and love them without that awful thing in the back of your mind, and when you do, you will feel MUCH better.
2006-06-16 17:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this, the question should be "how do I move on?" once you have established that you will be going out and meeting new people in no time and finding someone that makes you feel good all the time, not only some of the time and someone who you dont always have to worry about cheating on you, everyone deserves that, so do you.
2006-06-16 17:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by CHAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A breif story. True. My ex did that. Snowed me for 3 1/2 years or so he thought. I prayed for him, and for us all the time we were together. It paramounted when he hit and choked me because I told him it was over. I walked away,never went back, found a wonderful guy and married him 11 months ago. Never stay in a doomed relationship. Itnever, ever, works out.
2006-06-16 17:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know better that the answer is not. You shouldn't be with a guy who cheats on you. It's ironic for me to be saying this but I unintentionally fell in love with a colleague when I had my gf. She felt that without me telling or without her seeing us together. Girlfriends have good intuition.
I learned my lesson and my ex gf is really a tough girl. She broke up with me and didn't bother giving me a chance to repent. I still confess that I love her till now even if its been a year and half ago.
I know it was hard for her because we did spend wonderful, happy times together. We went through difficult times and all but she was tough on me. Sometimes, you just got to let go and be realistic that fidelity is important in the future of your relationship.
Even if you keep him now, eventually, you'll have to let go because you'll be fooling yourself hanging on the relationship that is full of deceptions.
2006-06-16 17:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of remembering the good times, remember how he cheated on you. Once a cheat is always a cheat.
2006-06-16 17:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt a way oh im sorry there is you can remove your brain after breaking up with him otherwise the good times will play over and over in your head.
2006-06-16 17:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking alone tells me no you should not be with him simple because a relationship has to have trust on both sides or it is doomed to fail.
2006-06-16 17:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should be just friends...
2006-06-16 17:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by kollan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋