Well, i have this guy I like in school, and I don't just like him, i LOVE him. So i wanted to call him but i'm not his girlfriend and all but i really wanted to hear his voice. Lately i'm getting that feeling a lot. When i have a fight with my friends or when my pet died and i really want to call him but i'm afraid he's going to hate me. I think he's starting to like me but he doesn't addmit this (not that i asked) but i don't know if i should call him. Please help me!!!!!!!!
2006-06-16 10:01:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know better than anyone else about making excuses. i have had situations like yours so id know. you need to hear his voice. if you dont you will go crazy like i eventually did.
make an excuse... say u didnt get the homework down.
say u need sombody else's phone number...
do anything and right in the spur of the moment for your call try your best to think of somthing.
(btw you should start the call like how you doing) or somthin
that may start a conversation then at the end you can be like oh yea i for got do you?.... blah blah blah whateveer your excuse call was.
but that is the best i can tell you make up some excuse.
2006-06-16 10:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-31 00:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by fleitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Great way to break the ice and let him know how much you care is to invite him out to a coffee shop for coffee. Buy him his favorite and have a nice social evening out for a few hours talking about everything and anything.
If he is open to communication, and doesn't hold back whenever you talk about anything, that is a sign that he is a good person too, and wants the same things in life that you also want.
2006-06-16 10:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you are overly obsessed with this guy. I would take a step back and think about why this person means so much to you. If you really are interested in dating him though, make a move. Either it will work out between the two fo you or you can realize that it is time to move on. Either way, i think you will be in a healthier position.
2006-06-16 10:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, coming from an experienced woman. ... You should first try to talk to him in school. Just start with an informal hello in the halls, eventually moving up to conversation. And then, when you are ready, call him. The worst he could do is not love you. But at least after waiting and becoming his friend first you will have that (friendship) to have with him.
2006-06-16 10:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i had a guy like that 2. if u really want 2 talk 2 him then just call him and if he likes u then he will want 2 talk 2 u and not make sum excuse 2 leave. trust me i have tried this be4 and it worked 4 me so it mite work 4 u.
2006-06-16 10:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now a days men are becoming more and more shy, so us women have to take charge, so call him whats it gonna hurt! Just to chat and if it turns into something else then good for you , if not then it wasn't meant to be, and you have probably learned a lot about him anyways. So nothing to loose
2006-06-16 10:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by terrbeary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the plunge and call him. BUT when you call *67 your number and ask for one of your friends. When he answers and you've asked for your friend and he says oh you got the wrong number say whose number is this because I dialed xxx-xxx-xxxx and when he says his name say oh hi I saw you at school, sorry I got the wrong number, my stupid friend must have written it down wrong, so how are you.
My best friend and I use to do this ALL the time when we were young. (That was over 15 years ago) Good luck
Oh yeah you can also tell his friend to give him your number, that works too.
2006-06-16 10:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes just call him as a friend right. Hes not going to mind just call and just say that you wanted to know how he was doing nothing to deep. There is nothing wrong with that.!!
2006-06-16 10:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he hate you?
Just ring him up and ask him some question that the both of you can relate to - something about music or movies or television...and then let the conversation go from there.
Good luck!
2006-06-16 10:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋