2006-06-16 09:53:07 · 23 answers · asked by th781024 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
look man,just think that this is a temporary feeling and it`ll be gone...if you do something stupid then you`ll smash your entire life and marriage for a passing feeling....look into the eyes of your wife and remember the moments and the times wich you spent happily with her,does she deserve to have pain from you because of a passing feeling that you have ?..she gave you all she have ,so why you still wanna hurt her and destroy your life?...it`s your decesion
2006-06-16 10:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by kollan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different ideas that come to mind. Try spicing it up instead of just doing the same boring routine. Buy some toys or some sex games and experiment (within the boundaries, but break out of your comfort zone a little) with new positions and such. It's not worth risking a perfectly good marriage just to satisify yourself with another person. Instead, improvise and pretend you are other people, just for that time being. I do this whenever I get bored or unhappy with the norm. It works, trust me!
2006-06-16 17:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure that your wife would be into it. Just try to set up the mood more often. Shes your wife. You and her made a promise and a commitment to be together, you cant cheat on her or anything like that so it would be best that you dont even come to consider to have something on the side. Just try to make it clear to her that you need some crazy stuff here and there. Good luck.
2006-06-16 17:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing marriage isn't all about the sex. If you want some hot sexual action, try searching the net for some new moves. Create a romantic setting and try something new, or something you haven't done in a while.
2006-06-16 16:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by annie_lubbers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is actually normal. Your married, your not dead. But the thing you don't do is act upon it. You have to remember the other person in this marriage. There's a reason you commited yourself to her eternally. And if you are not feeling that commitment any longer, then it is time to get out of the marriage. Otherwise, spend some time alone in the bathroom with a dirty magazine, or live out those fantasies with your wife.
2006-06-16 16:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Olive Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your wife to dress up as your fantasy or arrange to "pick her up " in a pub 1 night and take her to a hotel as though you have just met DO NOT have an affair 1 night stand it isnt worth the hassle you may not get caught right away but you will get caught we have ways of finding out. Or you could explain to her what you have just asked or have the conversation with her as a 3rd party "my mate at work is married but talking about needing extra marital activities" she may take the hint or there is also counselling
2006-06-16 16:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a commitment to this woman that you are with, temptation will always be out there for all men but I like to think about it like this, why mess up a great thing for something so trivial as an affair. Stand by the word you gave to this woman and just put your body and mind into check.
2006-06-16 16:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bluris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice that if you are not feeling satisfied in bed, talk to you wife about it. Ask her to try some new positions with you, or even role play. Maybe watch some pornography. But dont make her do something that's uncomfortable for her. It'll only make her unhappy, thus leading to her not wanting to have sex. So the best thing to do is discuss this with your wife and see what she thinks.
2006-06-16 17:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not run some ideas past your wife? I know if I were married I'd love my husband to come up with some new, kinky things for us to experiment with! If your fantasies involve other women, well then all I can say is some fantasies are better left as fantasies! Your marriage should always come first!
2006-06-16 16:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal advise is to talk it over with your wife. If she cannot satisfy your desires then seek professional help such as a psycologist or a clergyman. You need to fight any desires that lead you astray of your marraige if you take your vows seriously. I hope this helps and that you make the right decision! DW
2006-06-16 16:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋