My bf has warts on the base of his penis around his testicles, how do I approach him about this when he doesn't know that I know. I dont want him to think Ill leave or be embarrassed when weve been together for 4 years but the thing is I dont have them!
2006-06-16 09:37:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they could be genital warts.
If so, they are contagious.
I think you just have to tell him outright - not nasty, not judgmental. He should see a doctor about this. You may need to be tested.
there is NOTHING wrong with you doing this to protest/preserve your health.
2006-06-16 09:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is no good way of telling someone "hey you know i know about those things on your penis how about getting those things checked out?" if he takes care of himself then odds are he already got them checked out and knows what's up is just to embarrrassed to tell you cause that means that he is a dirty person. if i were you i'd tell him that no matter he can possibly do that there isn't anything that would pull me away from him unless he's been cheating of course. just let him feel that you love him no matter what happens. then hopefully he's just gonna come out and tell you on his own. make sure that when you are going to approach the subject though that he is full. that way he'll be to busy being full to be able to run away from you. and he'll have to talk.
2006-06-16 16:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can he not know. that u dont know about them. especially after 4 years. 1st if you aint got them, then where did he get them from. id be asking him loads of questions all the way to the clinic and back. as far as i know it can take any thing up to 18 months for genitle warts to appear. and be aware that even after clearing them up theres a very high chance they will come back. also get your self check to because they can appear in women internaly and u may not even know u got them.
2006-06-16 16:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has them and you have been having sex,you have got them too!you better get checked out!a women can have them inside and not know and they can turn to cancer,my sisters did! it is a std!and you both need to see the doctor together and be treated at the same time or youll keep passing them back and forth!they have to frozen out of a woman.
2006-06-16 16:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by cyndi b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes trying to spare someones feelings can really be more harm then good. You need to be upfront and get him to a doctor! If you've been together for four years it shouldn't be that hard to talk about it, right?
2006-06-16 16:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Wowzer-Bowzer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the answer and the best solution for a great relationship. Have him go to a doctor, maybe its something else and maybe it can danger your private part. Just bring it out to him slowly.
2006-06-16 16:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by LostMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with your bf for 4yrs and u can't talk to him about genital warts then maybe you need to find a new relationship with someone else.
That is a serious thing and can be passed to u!!!!!!
2006-06-20 19:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by hisladytish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to go to a Dr. it could be genital warts wich could be very contagious. why would he think that you dont know if you do? how can you not get totally grossed out when you have sex? i am a guy and i dont think i could do it!!
2006-06-16 16:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by mongo862001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not good to keep secrets from ur bf...so u should tell him that u know and take him to a clinic...how did he get dat...did u giv em to him or was he cheating
2006-06-16 16:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get seen by a doctor
2006-06-16 18:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋