I admit, I like females. I am one myself. I've been curious but i do not think that I will have relationships with females. Recently, I had a dream doing sexual acts with a female and I liked it. Do I like females? I don't think I can go without men though.
2006-06-16 09:36:33 · 18 answers · asked by mekkimaru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really, I don't think I am bi ( I have a bf!). But I find myself being attracted to females from time to time...
2006-06-16 09:38:49 · update #1
Roll with it, enjoy your self. Get busy w/someone you like, better yet get busy w/her and a guy. You'll dig it. Don't beat your self up about and so what if you are bi. Most guys find that a big turn on anyways.
2006-06-16 09:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have had the same experience. I like the softness and tenderness of woman but at the same time I love men. I have been with women but it's not like it's been very often. I don't really feel that I am bi sexual because I have no longing desire to be with a woman. It's like an extra curricular activity. I may be wrong maybe I am but the important thing is, I approve, who cares what the world thinks.
2006-06-16 16:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I was in the same situation you are. I was in my mid 20's and I had come across maybe 2 women that I was really strongly attracted to. I mean, I wanted to be WITH these women. One of them I found out later was a lesbian but she was in a committed relationship. If she had been interested in me, I may have ended up in a lesbian relationship. There was something about her that I was so incredibly attracted to. But in general I didnt find myself attracted to women.
It happens. Straight, bi, gay. It happens. It doesnt mean that you are gay. If you think you are then maybe you are. If you are very attracted to men but see an occasional woman that you consider attractive then that's just normal.
Bottom line is when you find someone who you connect with emotionally and physically it doesnt matter what sex they are. It's about you and that person and previous sexual orientation doesnt matter. .
2006-06-16 20:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by jenniferaboston 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you whether you are something or not i have a lot of friends who are gay so i always used to find it on my mind and that kind of scared me at first but i thought about it for a while and when i look at women i can tell if shes pretty, hot, beautiful, whatever but when i look at a girl i dont think about sex or wanting to kiss her or anything like that i think thats the most clear indicator you can have is whether you're actually physically, sexually attracted to other women
2006-06-16 16:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by blythe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman on woman sex is a NORMAL part of heterosexuality. Our culture is in total denial about this, especially because we are in denial about the acceptability of lesbianism (which is not normal). Almost all woman have the urges you are talking about. Only a handful indulge in them. Only women who have something wrong with them, replace their relationships with men, with this behavior...ie there is always a hell of alot of other stuff that is wrong with them.
This absolutely does not mean you are a lesbian or bisexual.
Don't worry about it.
2006-06-16 16:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you sounded pretty bi. You can be bi and have a bf, you can be bi and have a gf.
2006-06-16 16:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi curious its normal
2006-06-16 16:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by natasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but u r bi curious
2006-06-16 16:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think a girl is pretty does not mean you are a lesbian.
2006-06-16 16:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be anything you are. Whether or not you choose to "classify" yourself-you will have to be the one to make YOU happy.
2006-06-16 16:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋