I don't really understand. I'm in love with one girl, we've been together for a very short time but she married another guy. Since then, I lost of love to any girl. For now, I don't really care if anyone really in love with me or not. Sexually, I do it with girl or guy after the incident, not necessary that I'm in love with them but only for my own pleasure need only. I do enjoy masterbation too. In my heart, I really in love with that girl.
My question is, who I'm I?
2006-06-16 09:30:39 · 14 answers · asked by khmersquirt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One very confused person! Your heartache is overriding good sound judgment and your conscience is putting out the warning danger up ahead signs. The girl is gone. If she loved you back she would be with you and not someone else. Grieve for as long as you need to but realize that you got out lucky, she wasn't committed to you for love first and that is what you want and need in a intimate relationship. Trust also seems to be a lacking quality and needs to be reinstated both giving and receiving. Finally your value system is screwed up and your need to take the wisdom test. Values are what you decide and live by, promiscuous behavior is risky and self destruction turned inward will destroy your heart and soul. Stop, take adeep breath, think, think before you act get your values and behaviors into check, the best revenge is success. Show her what she lost when she didn't take you! Be everything and more than you can imagine, it is in you or we wouldn't be having this talk!
2006-06-16 09:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can really answer that question anyway since the breakup from your true love you have since tried "guys" maybe the reason why you haven't found out who you are is because you don't even know what you want or you do know what you want which is probably a guy an you don't want to be judge true enough it is a sin but don't have sex with women giving them diseases they didn't ask for thats not right at all
2006-06-16 16:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are you. No one can take the blame for your actions but you. You choose to sleep with men b/c you choose to. Everyone has a choice in life, now whether you choose to make the wrong choices, then you are going to have to deal with those consequences. You are who you make yourelf out to be. Never think that you are a bad person for the choices you do choose though.
2006-06-16 16:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your just in pain.You try to get over the break in your relationship.
I think the best you can do is not to have sex-just for fun, and without love-try to go out and don't get involved for a while, and after some time you 'll find another friend or girl.
Good luck.
2006-06-16 16:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by nancieke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're heartbroken and bisexual.
A) The heart will heal. You just have to give it time
B) Sleep with whomever you please, because it's nobody's business but yours. Enjoy yourself.
2006-06-16 16:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not confused, I like only boys.
2006-06-16 16:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by stefanw29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read rainbow boys....theres this guy who sounds just like you...ummmm. his name is jason in the book
2006-06-16 16:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by sydd vicious. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i hate to tell you but your gay.. nothing wrong with it but its something you have to deal with good luck and strap up..
2006-06-16 16:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try re-reading your question
2006-06-16 16:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by lovemeforever229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the confusion?? You like boys and girls and you like sex. Please wear a condom.
2006-06-16 16:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by headshrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋