Here is the deal. I am single and 44 you might remember the ? I ask a week ago. I met this women who is 21 years younger. I am in a Christian rock band and the guys I play with tell me she is too young! They say I should stay with some one my own age and a younger women would be a bad example for a christian Band. She has two children works 2nd shift has her own house and is not seeing a shrink and on prozac like the women I have met so far. she has it more together then I have ever seen. What do you think?????
2006-06-16 09:26:39 · 8 answers · asked by antho2820 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your friends, it probably the best advice!
2006-06-16 09:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age is just a number. Go to www.agelesslove.com
it's a great sight about age difference and relationships. If 2 people like each other then why should age matter? You could be with a 42 year old that acts like a 22 year old. It depends on the person. Go for it!
2006-06-16 16:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your fellow band members are jealous! If you are attracted to her and she is attracted to you,I say go for it! age is just a number.Although you should go slow. Because if you haven't known her for very long... well let's just say there are several things to be watchful of, Everyone,male and female are "sent from heaven" when we first meet them and after they have our hearts they turn into our worse nightmare!Have fun but be careful! and Good Luck!
2006-06-17 02:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing in the Bible saying that there are set age limits for who you can and cannot date. As long as you keep the relationship moral and pure, go for it.
2006-06-16 16:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by dewitthm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the 2 of you can be happy together, then the age shouldn't matter. maybe your friends haven't met her and see in her what you do. just start dating her and take it very slowly... especially since she has kids.
2006-06-16 16:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by hg mccain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age should not really matter. If you love her and she loves you that is what is important. Date through the seasons and see what happens.
2006-06-16 16:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both mature Christian adults, go for it! I have had a similar problem that his church didn't approve of (they were rather scary about it actually), don't let them control your life God is the only one that should be directing you! God Bless
2006-06-19 18:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by lettuceisgreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have sex with her a few times then just leave her.
2006-06-16 16:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋