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i am 2 mnt 2 week pregnant and i had love marriage . my parents don't take me home and only my sister is in my contact. my husband is not taking care of me nor he allows me to abort. i left my job and now for daily neccities i have to sell my jewelleries to buy food .my in laws have great bank a/c so they r only harressing me . there is no one to help. i want this child but i don't have money .my sister can provide me everything but says to abort the child as in future they can claim for child so i don't know what to do ?pls help me. no funny ans. or otherwise i will report to yahoo rules voiulation

Answer 1

I don't have an answer, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you, and good luck.

Answer 2

I'm looking to adopt a newborn baby right from the hospital, willing to travel reasonable distance to adopt and sign any necessary forms for the adoption process. I was wondering if there's anyway that I can get a hold of a mother to be and adopt without going through lawyers and a bunch of court fees. If there is anyone out there that can help me with this or is considering adoption please post an answer or contact me at [e-mail]...please contact me , I haven't had the easiest time finding a baby to adopt. I am married and am a very loving and caring person . I am willing to pay the mother money if I could adopt the baby!

Answer 3

Do what u have to do. If it means leaving ur husband or gettin another job. U should never let a man tell you that u cant have a child that he helped make. I was in the same situation except my boyfriend had another girlfriend that he was living with. I chose not to have an abortion because this is my body and that woulda been something that I would have to live with for the rest of my life. Now he has fully stepped up and is taking care of me and our child.

Answer 4

I feel for you. I don't know where you live but maybe you can sign up on the foodstamp program. It may not be something you want to do but you have to think about your baby. You could try to find another job. I know that is difficult to do sometimes too.I can't believe your family won't help you. I am a perfect stanger and I would help you.If you want to keep the baby you shouldn't abort. You will live to regret it. There may be some kind of other government program that will help you. I wish you luck and I'm sorry I couldn't be more help to you. Be strong for you and your baby. You will make it.

Answer 5

You are hard to understand, but I will try to advise you.
First, if you are going to have an abortion, you better get a move on. You're running out of time.

What we have here is abuse, financial abuse. If you are being yelled at and insulted, you have mental abuse and if anyone is hitting you it is physical. Even without the last two, you are being abused, and trust me, the other two will come. Step one, Isolate you from your family. Done. Step two, make you completely dependant. Done. Step three, get you knocked up. Done. Step four, turn you into a slave, and take every little thing that happens out on you. It's coming, trust me.

Call the local police station, not the emergency number, but the office number and ask them to direct you to the nearest battered women's shelter. OR call your local Planned Parenthood or Crisis Pregnancy Center and explain the situation to them. That is what they are there for. They will take care of you and help you take care of yourself.

Legal action can be taken in the future with regard to your child, but don't worry about that now. First thing's first. Get out and get to a safe place, talk to expert counsellors who work at Crisis Centers, Planned Parenthood and battered women's shelters. They will help you get in contact with people who can help you further. If you don't know how to get in touch with these people, just call information. 1 plus your area code, 555-1212 and ask for Planned Parenthood, or the police station in your town.
(PS Planned Parenthood isn't just for abortions. If you want to keep your baby, they will help you find a way!)

Answer 6

You will not find an answerer here but you will have advice. i have a 7 month old baby, I have been with my husband for 10 years, our baby was plan and my mother stay in my house for 3 months to help me with her. Taking care of her is THE HARDEST think in the world, is existing, overwhelming and sometimes frustration, I love her more than anything, but she takes all mi time. I am sure you want to give the baby the best of overeating, but is going to get VERY HARD any dentition you will make will determine you future life. Think hard and think for the best of you and the baby.

Answer 7

I really do feel for you. If you run out of time, or don't want to get an abortion you can put the child up for adoption. In the mean time, there are services out there than can help you. Try food stamps, welfare, maybe women's shelters. Could you talk to your doctor and see if he/she knows any programs that can help you?

Answer 8

Listen, no matter how negative people may react at first to pregnancy, I guarantee you that once that child is born, everyone will want to share the love you have for your own. Saying that, I assure you, with hard work & commitment from you & your husband, you WILL receive help. OK? Don't worry, I've seen it too many times. & you'll end up with no regrets! Best wishes & good luck!

Answer 9

You need to do what will make you happy. If you really want the baby, then seek out local resources that can help you. There is food stamps and lots of other programs out there to help. Just go to your local SRS building and ask to talk to someone. They can get you headed down the right path to get the help you need, if you truly want to keep the child.

Answer 10

If you're husband is not taking care of you and you are unable to take care of yourself neither one of you don't need a baby right now. Not sure what your circumstances are right now, but if your husband can not support you through the pregnancy can he do it after the baby is born? How old are you?

Answer 11

Wether or not you decide to keep this baby is a decision only you can make no one can make it for you , ...it sounds as though your husband and in-laws could only cause you more grief should you choose to keep the baby but, like I said, only you can decide wether or not to keep the pregnancy. My advice is that you get to your sister....if she is the only one who can help you then you get to her and I mean now! Get to your sister, get a job and get on your feet. I don't know you but I do know that God never gives you more than you can handle...pray for his guidance and that his will be done. Good luck honey, and I'll pray for you too.