I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. he is cute, know how to have fun and very good at SEX!! but once he gets drunk he get's out of control. he's always accusing me of hooking up with his friends or I'm disrespecting him for some odd reason and it only happens when he is drunk, so i try to stay aways but some how i fall right back to him. the sad thing is that i pay for almost everything when we go out with like dinner, drinks,and what ever he wants at that time . I think i need someone that can treat me like a princess!!
2006-06-16 09:18:36 · 13 answers · asked by AMC21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to hop on his camel and ride.
2006-06-16 09:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean middle Eastern instead of middle Easter? Anyway, if he's from the middle east, you gotta understand the conservative background he comes from. I come from a Christian Middle Eastern Background. However, whether he's Christian or Muslim, it makes no difference. It is still a conservative male dominant community. He might be possessive and this only shows up when he's drunk cuz his guard is down. To be honest with you, he might not be looking for a long term relationship with you. He might just be having fun. He will settle for a "good" girl. I know it sucks!!! I would say, just leave him. Because when Middle Easterns are serious they will treat you like a Queen not just a princess and they wouldn't let you pay a single penny on dinners or whatever.
2006-06-16 09:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Halle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dear since that guy only causes problems when he gets drunk, all what you have to do is to keep him away from drinking too much. By the way i am a middle eastern person and i understand the way that guy thinks. Most people when they get drunk they become transparent, so based on his attitude I can say he cares about you and he may be in love with you. good luck.
2006-06-16 09:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think him being Middle Eastern is the problem. He just seems abusive period. I dated a middle eastern guy who was extremely short tempered his brother was really sweet. It just depends on the guy. I honestly would try my best to get out of this relationship. Would hate for it to esculate to more then just fits.
2006-06-16 09:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If that is the way you want to be treated then stay with him. If you wanted to be treated differently then leave. You can't change a person. Seems pretty basic to me.
2006-06-16 09:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a middle Easter guy?
A guy in a rabbit suit with a basket full of eggs?
2006-06-16 09:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just answered your own question. You either have to make a commitment to yourself to get gone & stay gone, or continue being miserable. It's as simple as that.
2006-06-16 09:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get a middle Christmas guy!
2006-06-16 09:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by stevekc43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him! He will not change. If he can disrespect you now he will always do it. Dump the chump before you get too involved.
2006-06-16 09:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question. leave his broke, controlling, drunk, stupid a**! there are lots of other guys that are fun and have good sex.
2006-06-16 09:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by hg mccain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls are princess' and you should find someone that treats you that way.
2006-06-16 09:24:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋