I mean he grabs me in his big arms and he'll start kissing me i n the neck and sometimes holding my butt I try to push him sometimes he stops or Only when He wants to!.....Is this normal??
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2006-06-16 08:53:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's hurting you you should tell him. Then if it happens again slap his face and say, "I told you that hurts!" the more you take of the hurt the more the hurt will be!
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2006-06-16 09:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal for who? If you don't like it then tell him. If he is touching you in a way that you don't like then you need to speak up. If he doesn't stop doing it then he doesn't respect you. He may not even realize how much it bothers you. Tel him when you are alone and cpmfortable - NOT in the middle of an arguement about it. If he doesn't listen - MOVE ON......there are better fish in the sea.
2006-06-16 08:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be violent yet, but when those sort of things happen, he might become violent soon, especially if you try to tell him to stop and he won't. sit down and talk to him about it and see what he says. if he says he'll stop and he does, then keep the relationship going. but if he's completely oblivious to it all and doesn't stop, you might wanna consider getting out of the relationship.
2006-06-16 08:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does the same thing to me. Yes it is normal , it's called their hormones getting the best of them. The one thing you can do to diffentitely make him stop is to grab his balls in a none playful way, just hard enough to let him know that you don't apperciate waht he is doing.
2006-06-16 08:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by kellymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine does the same thing. just sit him down and tell him that when he kisses you that sometimes he doesnt realize his strength and hurts you. you realize that he has no ntention of hurting you but your not as strong as him and you would like it if he eased up just a bit. also tel him that being in his strong arms makes u feel safe.
2006-06-16 08:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal?........not where I come from. Sounds like a precursor to rape. If you don't like it...and you tell him this and he refuses to stop then dump him. unless of course you get off on being treated like garbage and not having your opinions matter. Then in that case...stick around. You'll be amazed at what's to come.
2006-06-16 08:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. men are insecure which they dont admit. He may just love you so much he cant help it. Ask him to be more gentle. If he cares about you he will. he he doesnt respect your request, knee him where it hurts and let it seem like an accident.
2006-06-16 08:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by loislane475 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be trying to tell you that he wants you or that he is expressing his passion for you. Go with it, but if it is rough to the point that it feels abusive, the tell him he needs to back off!!
2006-06-16 08:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has control issues. Also sounds like he kinda treats you disrespectfully. Does he know he's hurting you ? Maybe he doesn't even know and would stop if he did.
2006-06-16 08:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He be trying to hurt you on purpose but if you don't tell him that he be hurting you then he might think that you like it, so tell him and see if he will stop
2006-06-16 08:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋