Communication has been terrible, trust sucks ,and sex is okay.
She's always broke. And always complains about everything. Is there a happy medium?
2006-06-16 08:52:52 · 26 answers · asked by taz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her go and if it was meant to be she will come back
2006-06-16 08:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same freakin' prob here right now...I hate wondering sooo much...I want someone who is sure...Communication is ok here I guess...Trust is an issue in my life...I have had so many problems with cheating guys...Sex is perfect...Ok...So what's the problem then huh?...Arguing is all we do here...I have no idea why and I hate it...I am on my last leg here...I am waiting to see if he really does want me...Thing is that he won't be home til November...I can't wait that long...If there was a happy medium, I would definitely tryin' to get my butt there as fast as possible...Maybe you two should talk...Or call it quits...IDK...I have been told to talk and maybe that will work...Thing is that you both have to give 100/100...And if she doesn't and hasn't given 100% then move on...I wish I could do that but I think I'm too stubborn to want to be alone...I don't want to be alone...If you wanna talk some more bout it then I guess you could im me...
2006-06-16 16:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by *Panda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've reached the start of the end, you don't sound happy. Just take a step back and re-evaluate some things especially if trust sucks. It depends what circumstances you are under, how long you've been together and whether you are in love w/ her and want a future w/ her. The happy medium will be your determining if she's the one who makes you happy...from there if you decide to stay then work on it, if not, there are other fish in the sea :)
2006-06-16 15:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Pink3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i've been ther that used to be me!!! you guys have to meet in the middle somehow. You have to fix the reasons why you guys can't trust eachother and learn to talk and have discussuion rather than argue. once something bothers you or her try and let her or you know, nicely right when it happens if you can. If there is nothing you can do to make her happy at all then forget about it, you don't need that. If she's always broke then she needs to set a life for herself, don't let her depend on you b/c then she'll take advantage of you.
2006-06-16 16:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by redsoxchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is the trust gone? Sex can be improved, just work on it, communication can also be worked on. Do you love her? If so, then just be patient. Maybe she wants a ring on her finger. Marriage is the right thing to do if you are having sex anyway. However, I'm not trying to sound like your mom, so just show her this question, and take it from there. I wish you luck.
2006-06-16 15:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by candy0813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the time to sit down and calmly talk about the issues that you guys disagree about. You might be able to work things out better if it is in a calm, composed manner. Make sure she gets to say her part without interuption from you, and vice versa.
2006-06-16 15:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you love her. If she's the one, then you should try to get through anything but if you're not compatible, don't waste more time in a dead relationship.
Relationships are meant to enhance each others life not drag them down. It isn't stressful when you're with the right person.
Good luck!
2006-06-16 15:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by LiLiLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need a quite night together to really talk about where you are both going in life. You both really need to tell each other how you feel and then together you decide if you all want to go your seperate ways.
2006-06-16 15:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by JML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have good communication and trust then yes it's time to break up and move on. Okay sex can be found elsewhere.
2006-06-16 15:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen recently me and my Boyfriend Had this HUGE fight and were still pretty shaken about it...but you see I decided to forgive him Cause I really Do Love him And I always will....Love is not about how long youll think youre gonna stay together it About MAKING IT WORK FOR LOVE SO MAKE IT WORK IN THE NAME OF LOVE!GOD BLESS!!!!
2006-06-16 15:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really just depends on how much you care about her. From the way you put this I'm thinking you want an out and you are expecting us to tell you to leave. You have to make that decision on your own.
good luck!
2006-06-16 15:55:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋